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Momma to H, O, & C
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Gdanemom- Don't fret, dear. I'll be the first to admit I've experienced those same internal breakdowns. Every time AF shows up, I feel a deep despair and regret. Why the hell can't I be younger, and have more time to try this baby thing without feeling a time crunch from my age? And why did that last baby have to leave my body when he was so loved and desperately wanted? Well, the reality, is that the baby hasn't happened because it's not been my time...and the baby I did conceive was too precious for this earth. God has plans for me, and I need to do a better job accepting His will.
SLH is right...most of us WILL go on to have babies in the next year or so. TTC is so stressful, and I think while we fight the good fight and do everything in our power to become pregnant, these life events are already predetermined by our individual fates and destinies in life. We must try to hold our heads up high, and keep going on our journies.
Tryinfor1- I'm so glad you're not offended! And I'm glad you and DH are trying to communicate lovingly about everything. It isn't unusual for a man in his early twenties to feel preoccupied with sex...24 is young, and young guys are horny! Perhaps you could send some of that high sex drive my DH's way...he's 38, and coming off his antidepressants, which are well-documented libido-crushers. I wish you both the best in your situation, and I hope he can get the message that his behaviors have been hurtful toward you.
Mrs. B- Sheesh, hon, I had no idea...I'm happy to hear you've reached a happier stage in your marriage. Thanks for being so honest and open about your past with DH. It helps those of us who are weathering the storm to know that we're not alone.
AFM, we bd'ed tonight for fun. It's a "high" day, and I may get my peak tomorrow, or Saturday. Hoping we have the stamina to keep humping it out!
SLH is right...most of us WILL go on to have babies in the next year or so. TTC is so stressful, and I think while we fight the good fight and do everything in our power to become pregnant, these life events are already predetermined by our individual fates and destinies in life. We must try to hold our heads up high, and keep going on our journies.
Tryinfor1- I'm so glad you're not offended! And I'm glad you and DH are trying to communicate lovingly about everything. It isn't unusual for a man in his early twenties to feel preoccupied with sex...24 is young, and young guys are horny! Perhaps you could send some of that high sex drive my DH's way...he's 38, and coming off his antidepressants, which are well-documented libido-crushers. I wish you both the best in your situation, and I hope he can get the message that his behaviors have been hurtful toward you.
Mrs. B- Sheesh, hon, I had no idea...I'm happy to hear you've reached a happier stage in your marriage. Thanks for being so honest and open about your past with DH. It helps those of us who are weathering the storm to know that we're not alone.
AFM, we bd'ed tonight for fun. It's a "high" day, and I may get my peak tomorrow, or Saturday. Hoping we have the stamina to keep humping it out!