What are the origins? The bloody sacrificial ones? This isn't something I've ever heard of.
Comes from Saturn, also depicted as Old Father Time and the Grim Reaper; during the Roman festival of Saturnalia, parents would sacrifice their children to Saturn. They used to decorate trees with candles made from the fat of the sacrificed children and decapitated heads (now Christmas baubles).
I'm caught between wanting to give my child the magical time I had as a child and doing it knowing the origins, because as a Christian* knowingly celebrating Christmas (a festival appropriated from paganism) in such a way, it's not good spiritually. But if I introduce the St Nicholas story as a way of gifting a secret present, maybe that could work...I've got at least another two years before I have to worry about it anyway; next year, Bump will only be about 7mos old, so too young to give a hoot.
I probably won't be immediately completely comfortable whatever I decide, but will do something for my child to have a wondrous time and over the years it will turn into our own family tradition. I guess whatever we do, we'll keep it basic and family-oriented, with lots of crafts and homemade decorations and giving to others less fortunate. Until now, I've not needed to celebrate it at all; my family and I get together for a family meal (at least, when I lived in England, we did), but we didn't exchange gifts.
I've thought about celebrating Chanukah, as that's what Yeshua/Jesus would have celebrated, or maybe teaching Bump about all the different ways different cultures celebrate togetherness in winter and just making a big Festivus celebration that doesn't lean in any particular direction
(*non-denominational, don't celebrate the Sabbath as Sunday, because it's Saturday, don't go to church, don't really call myself Christian as Yeshua never said to, but that's the closest 'religion' I jive with)
I went to a mostly Muslim school and we learnt about all of the festivals and celebrations. We'd celebrate Eid and Diwali and there would always be references to Chanukah, just as we learnt different songs and heard stories from all different religions in assembly. It was great! At our Eid parties saris were the norm and there was always someone there who'd put mehndi on all the girls' hands. As far as Christmas went I seem to remember a lot of the kids in my class, who weren't from British or Christian backgrounds, talking about santa, so I think there was a small part of celebrating to fit in for some?! I don't think there was an overly big deal made of it tbh! And when it was mentioned, it was just in context of people who celebrate it get presents, just like people who celebrate other days get presents on those!
See, I like this. I went to a Jewish school and had a similar experience of learning about world religions and beliefs as many students were (other than Jewish, obviously) Muslim, Hindu etc.