Not Waiting After Miscarriage - Any One Else?

[StillPraying]

OMG I don't know how you hold out so long! I'd have already POS at least 3 times!

AFM thought I was done bleeding, nope came back today with a vengeance. Ugh. Did see OB tho and all of my test results were normal which means whatever caused Luke's death was most likely chromosomal. Which is reassuring in the sense that it isn't likely to happen again and that him passing was for the best as something was probably wrong with him. trying to look on the bright side.

 

[maryp0ppins]

Hi all,
I had an early mc last cycle at 5weeks5days,bleeding lasted just over a week.
I think I may have ovulated 5-6 days ago but I am not certain as I haven't been doing opks this cycle.
I normally have a 32 day cycle and O around day 18, DH and I dtd on cd 16,17,18 and really hoping we've managed to catch again! Although i am completely aware that I may have a longer than usual cycle this month.

 

[Dannypop]

OMG I don't know how you hold out so long! I'd have already POS at least 3 times!

AFM thought I was done bleeding, nope came back today with a vengeance. Ugh. Did see OB tho and all of my test results were normal which means whatever caused Luke's death was most likely chromosomal. Which is reassuring in the sense that it isn't likely to happen again and that him passing was for the best as something was probably wrong with him. trying to look on the bright side.

Oh what a relief. That is a bit of closure for you. Even when I had my MC at 6.5 weeks which barely anything, I was so relieved that it was diagnosed as a blighted ovum so I knew exactly what my body was doing. Your case is different as you actually had a little fetus growing but your body took control in its own way of handling things. Thank goodness it is unlikely to happen again. And once the bleeding is properly over it will be like a clean slate.

Welcome Mary! Sounds like you covered your bases perfectly well. Any MC no matter even if it's a chemical or an early MC is still bloody hard cause you see the BFP and it opens up your heart and hopes.
I had an anovulatory cycle after my MC but this is cycle 2 after my MC and I really think I caught the egg!! Keep us posted

 

[StillPraying]

Love your name Mary! Sorry for your loss Do you have any idea when you *think* af will show?

Danny it does help knowing it wasn't something with me that needs to be addressed. I agree mc is hard no matter how early. Keeping my fx you caught the egg this cycle!

 

[sarah2211]

I thought I'd update. DH and I saw a fertility specialist earlier in the week. He thinks I'm ovulating very few cycles and I'm starting on Clomid next cycle. I'm currently taking provera to bring on AF. Obviously the MC I ovulated but the cycles since and some before, I haven't.

 

[Dannypop]

Clomid can work magic and can often be all it takes to get you preg. I took it for 2 cycles when ttc #1. It's so uninvasive. I was also only ovulating every now and then so it really was all it took for me. Oh plus I had the trigger shot just to make those ripe little Clomid eggs come out to play!

 

[StillPraying]

Sarah so glad you saw a specialist,really hope the clomid works quickly for you!

Danny are you taking clomid this cycle too?

 

[sarah2211]

Thanks ladies. I'm feeling really positive about it happening for us!

 

[StillPraying]

Sarah when do you start clomid?

 

[sarah2211]

Currently take my provera to bring on AF. She should be here on the 11th September hopefully. Then I'll take clomid on CD3-7, 13th-18th September. The doctor said to treat CD11-18 as my fertile week. He also said not to temp, but I think I'll just during that week to confirm O and then towards the end of my TWW. I'm excited though, I wasn't to start now! Haha.

 

[StillPraying]

I'm so excited for you! Hopefully af shows up on time so you don't have to wait! Lol at temping anyways. Are you going to do opks?

My dh was like well we can start talking about trying after we move (mid oct) and you don't need to obsess over it. And I'm just nodding in agreement as I order a package of wondfo opks/hpts off of Amazon I'm not down for waiting. Lol

 

[sarah2211]

Thanks haha I'm so excited for me too. It almost feels like we are back at the start when we had the excitement of first trying. I'm actually beginning to picture it all happening, where as last month I could only imagine a childless future.

Haha temping has become such a habit. I'll just do it to confirm O day and then to be able to become a total POAS addict haha. DH is ok with me temping those days and he said he won't dob me into the FS haha. I'm thinking about doing OPKs, mainly just so I can feel like I'm in control haha. But we will still BD just as much regardless. I've got a few left over but not enough for a whole cycle.

Haha I don't blame you. Maybe if thinks you're not obsessing over it and let it happen he'll be ok if it does. Did you have a D&C? Have you been given the go ahead to start TTC straight away? Sorry I haven't read the whole thread

 

[Dannypop]

Sarah so glad you saw a specialist,really hope the clomid works quickly for you!

Danny are you taking clomid this cycle too?

Nope not yet but it will be my Gynae's next step if I am not preg this month. And I am so scared of twins eeeeeeeek! Ha ha

 

[maryp0ppins]

Love your name Mary! Sorry for your loss Do you have any idea when you *think* af will show?

Danny it does help knowing it wasn't something with me that needs to be addressed. I agree mc is hard no matter how early. Keeping my fx you caught the egg this cycle!

The absolute earliest would be next weekend but I think most likely it will be the tues,sep 13.
I have a sore/dry throat and blocked nose so I am hoping its gone before AF shows (or not!) Because I am feeling really run down.
Seeing my gp tomorrow to talk about the miscarriage since I was on holiday when it happened, I want him to record it on my medical record.

 

[StillPraying]

Sarah no I was induced and delivered. My OB told me I could try as soon as I felt ready. Yay I'm so glad the excitement is coming back for you, that way it's fun and not as stressful hopefully. I'm definitely going to hide my stash from him and just obsess on here lol

Haha Danny I've heard clomid does make the twin thing higher. Do you have twins in your family?

Mary definitely want it in your medical record. I hope you aren't catching a cold!

 

[Dannypop]

Sarah no I was induced and delivered. My OB told me I could try as soon as I felt ready. Yay I'm so glad the excitement is coming back for you, that way it's fun and not as stressful hopefully. I'm definitely going to hide my stash from him and just obsess on here lol

Haha Danny I've heard clomid does make the twin thing higher. Do you have twins in your family?

Mary definitely want it in your medical record. I hope you aren't catching a cold!

My husband was one of a twin but it got absorbed in utero but my cousin who is psychic says she can see a strong chance of twins for me eeeeek!!!!!

 

[StillPraying]

Oooooo! Do you want twins? I used to say I didn't want twins because the idea of being prego with twins terrifies me lol but now I think I'd really like twins.

 

[sarah2211]

Danny, twins would be DH's dream come true. I know what you mean though! It wouldn't be my choice but every baby is a blessing!

Apparently it's a 1 in 10 chance of twins on Clomid and 1% of triplets. Triplets would scare me!

Still praying, I'm glad you are able to make the choice when you're ready. After your third MC do the doctors know what might be causing them? Haha after replying to your last post I went and bought some OPKs online. I should get them before AF finishes haha. Here's to hiding our stash!

 

[StillPraying]

OMG I don't even consider triplets. No way. I can't even try to picture that!

Sarah since they weren't consecutive losses they don't really do much digging. I got tested for everything after this last one because it was 2nd trimester, which isn't as common as 1st trimester losses.

My stash should be here tomorrow!!

 

[sarah2211]

Haha no way to triplets! I could handle twins but triplets would be too much I think.

That's hard. I bet it doesn't make too much difference to you whether they were consecutive or not, still crap! Did they find anything this time?

Haha you'll have to beat DH to the letterbox