AwesomeSauce
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I do have to say that my mil doesn't mean to be cruel necessarily. She is just not a naturally compassionate person, a d she doesn't know when to keep her mouth shut. A few years ago we were present to keep her company while fil went in for brain surgery. He had a low grade fever and she was saying all sorts of worst case scenarios. Not because she wanted them to happen, just because they were concerns she had. It was sad to have fil worrying about his surgery and then for her to be putting even more ideas of what can go wrong into his head right before the surgery. She just doesn't know how to express faith, hope, and love well.