I have private gender scan on the 17th Nov.
We originally had a scan at 20weeks and although the cord was in the way, the lady thought "there's more than cord there" but she wouldn't be sure and I didn't want to take that as good enough an opinion. Anyway, baby was in too much of an awkward position to get full heart and upper limb measurements so we went back yesterday and baby STILL didn't want to co-operate and show his bits!
So we decided to go for a private one... It means so much for us to know so we can bond with baby by knowing who I'm carrying, as we have names picked. We did with DD too.