I have never found first trimester hard like this but honestly I don't even work, today all I have done is taken boys to school and nipped into a few shops with youngest, come home, sat about, had nails done, school run again, cleaned the kitchen and that's it, I really wanted to carry on cleaning and felt physically like I just couldn't, went and had a bath then bathed the boys instead. I'm just so so so physically drained this time. Seriously ladies, those of you doing long shifts at work I salute you!!
I think it depends Jox true bump only gets bigger but when it's bloat it usually comes and goes and goes away and real bump gets bigger. Honestly though I don't think this is bloat that I have. Apart from on an evening that's Deffo bloat X