I am sure several people will have lost babies during the time of filming, but just because you may feel comfortable to share your experience of your still birth doesn't mean everyone is. i am comfortable discussing aspects of my miscarriage with others but there is no chance i would have wanted to be filmed at the time, and that was a 12 week miscarriage, there isn't a chance in hell i would publically share the loss of my baby with the world, not that there is anything wrong with those who do, but everyone i know personally who has suffered a loss at a last gestation wouldn't have wanted that.
So OBEM cant share still births without consent of the parents. On top of that they are regulated by OFCOM where they have to be careful to obey the rules:
Suffering and distress
8.16 Broadcasters should not take or broadcast footage or audio of people caught up in emergencies, victims of accidents or those suffering a personal tragedy, even in a public place, where that results in an infringement of privacy, unless it is warranted or the people concerned have given consent.
8.17 People in a state of distress should not be put under pressure to take part in a programme or provide interviews, unless it is warranted.
8.18 Broadcasters should take care not to reveal the identity of a person who has died or of victims of accidents or violent crimes, unless and until it is clear that the next of kin have been informed of the event or unless it is warranted.
8.19 Broadcasters should try to reduce the potential distress to victims and/or relatives when making or broadcasting programmes intended to examine past events that involve trauma to individuals (including crime) unless it is warranted to do otherwise. This applies to dramatic reconstructions and factual dramas, as well as factual programmes.
- In particular, so far as is reasonably practicable, surviving victims and/or the immediate families of those whose experience is to feature in a programme, should be informed of the plans for the programme and its intended broadcast, even if the events or material to be broadcast have been in the public domain in the past.
Even if given consent the people could turn around later and say they felt pressured and didn't want that shown.
So its not as easy as to say it should be shown and that its wrong that its not, because maybe people dont want that personal time shared with the world. I saw something on facebook showing a model of a 12 week fetus and My husband and I got upset thinking of our baby who died at 12 weeks, that is really personal to us and although I would happily give advice to people about my experience i don't want to see it around me when I am not prepared as it reminds me of that painful time and although my baby will never be forgotten i think if him differently now and don't want to keep reliving the miscarriage and specifically the pains I felt at that time.
I do wish people understood more about the loss of babies, i wish people had better understanding and empathy to those who have lost babies, but I am not sure what the best platform for that would be.