Charlie, aww bless your sister, i had the same problem with Jack when he was little. He was very sleepy and was a right pain to feed for quite some time. Expressing a little and syringe feeding is one way of getting a little into them, which should hopefully give amelia some energy to wake up and latch on. she should persevere with that, and some ways of getting her interested in feeding are as follows:
*express a little milk onto the nipple first to entice her to latch on
*tickling her feet/hands/cheeks during a feed to encourage her to stay awake (we had to do this ALL THE TIME with jack when he was a tiny one)
*skin to skin contact - tell her to strip baby off and strip herself off (whilst baby is awake and alert), and just cuddle her. Babies are pre-programmed to find the breast. You can look at videos on youtube of babies being delivered onto mums tummy and immediately crawling up the body and latching on without any help!! its amazing to see!
did she have any medication during her labour? some medications, like pethidine, if given less than 2 hours before delivery can make baby very sleepy for a while. thats why Jack was so sleepy when he was a newborn baby but it does get better. Take it from me, soon that baby will wake right up and be feeding all around the clock!
Its hard not to feel like this kind of thing is the end of the world, but it will get better and its certainly not her fault! loads of women have a difficult start with breastfeeding. soon it will be so easy, and she will wonder what she was worried about
Amy, i totally feel you on the weight worries. I am completely avoiding the scales at the moment, i have a history of disordered eating and i just dont think i could psychologically cope with seeing my weight right now. i am going to have to ask the midwife to not tell me my weight when she weighs me tomorrow! You should def. get booked in asap hon, if you leave it too long they wont be able to get you booked for your 12 week scan in time! i totally understand why you are apprehensive though