Oh god I know, I made the same mistake with Casey, my first son, he did get spoilt by us both as he's dh first child but we're a lot stricter with him now and he's no where near as naughty since starting pre school, but he is constantly on the go and bags of energy i could do with some of it, dh has good ethics though and is already instilling in him incentives to do things and be rewarded for helping etc, I tell you what I ain't be doing, having this baby in the bed, both dd 12 and Casey slept on me the first few weeks as both point blank refused the Moses basket but it led to years of problems getting them out of the bed, no way an I doing that again however much harder it is, it's so hard when they're crying and all you want is sleep, a needle dropping wakes me up, I've always been the same so I never worried about having them in the bed as the slightest murmur from them had me wide awake, dh did nights back then but he sleeps like the dead and has conversations with me he can't remember the next day so no way will Brooklyn be sleeping next to him. Did your ohs mum do everything for him as a child? My ex was babied and waited on into his twenties and he's completely immature and still as child, it doesn't do them any favours, dh had to be v grown up from a young age as did I as his parents split up and his mum worked long hours to provide, he had to do a lot for himself and he's so much younger than my ex but completely different in everyway. Thank god, my ex is a complete nob. Xxxxxx
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