Bless her! BF is mega hard for them first 6 weeks! There's so much that's normal and books don't tell you! Soreness normal (urgh not looking forward to that bit ), cluster feeding (which leads to mums feeling baby's not getting anything when really it's just getting you to make more), growth spurts, pumping (how some can pump hardly anything and leads them to think there not making anything when really pumps just don't work out for all mums). I think you have to be quite determined to keep going cause it is so hard work. I nearly gave up with my first, but I was too stubborn on myself lol. And I'm glad I did! First of all formula is bloody expensive!!! And I'm too lazy to be washing/sterilising/making up bottles all the time ha ha, and obviously the health benifits.
Oh another thing I just thought of which seems to be missed or dismissed quite easily without looking is tongue ties, there so common and a big cause of latch problems, don't know what it's like in the US but it's sometimes hard to get a confirmed diagnosis or quick treatment here and I have a friend who had to go private for it diagnosing and snipping and my SIL fought for weeks on end before finally getting to see a specialist but by that point her supply was ruined and he was used to bottles from expressing as he couldn't latch
Congrats newlywed.
I can't help but feel slightly jealous when I see people having their babies even though I want him to wait until at least Saturday. I'm so anxious to meet him and not be pregnant anymore. There's been so many babies born on the due date group I am on on Facebook.
Hanging in there Stacey, I have my 38 weeks appt tomorrow morning and I'm looking forward to seeing If I'm dilated anymore then the 1 cm I was last week. how are things with you?
I had a great conversation with my 5 yo niece tonight. She wasn't sure if she should be afraid for me or not . She started off by trying to feel the baby she saw my stomach move and must have thought oh wow wanna see if I can feel it. So she comes over to me with her hands on my stomach and says I think your gonna have your baby in 1 week and the doctor has a knife ready and I was like I hope he doesn't. And she looked at me just so confused like well how else is that baby coming out then lol and then she felt her kick and was like "what her foot is right there?"...is she upside down? And I was just laughing ..I said yes, when she's ready to come out she turns her head down and gets ready and if she doesn't go head down then the doctor needs to use his knife, and apparently that she understood. She looked at my sister and said is that why the doctor used a knife for me, because I wasn't head down. And my sister said yep. We went on like this for a good 10 minutes....she's so confused. I was waiting for her to ask from where the baby is coming out.....but she didn't LOL
How is everyone doing? xx