October Sticky Beans!

[krissie328]

Oh that's coming fast tod! That is great she was able to you so quickly!

 

[mrscletus]

That's awesome that she can do it in time.. And 3 weeks! That's crazy..

 

[Angel5000]

Tods - Oh wow! That line would have fooled me!! I'm keeping everything crossed that AF doesn't show!

That is so exciting that your wedding is getting so close! Are you nervous? We were still making adjustments ot my wedding dress two days before my wedding! my grandmother and aunt were furiously some modifications because I'd lost more weight than expected!



Cletus - that is some serious will power! I'm impressed!! I lived in a town very similar to yours growing up. We had 4500 people in the town, and my graduating class was 62, we were the largest graduating class in years!

When Angel got her positive I was super excited and squealing at my hubs about it- I'm sure he knows more about you ladies than he ever expected to!

same for my husband. He's actually asked before, "so how are the people in your group doing?" and will sometimes reference one of you directly

 

[todmommy4568]

Lol Angel thats great, cracks me up!

The wedding is coming up quick for sure! I'm not really nervous, we are having a simple courthouse ceremony and the marriage license and fees and what not are all paid and squared away. Then for the reception we are having it at a bar and bringing in sloppy joes and cupcakes so all in all not much to worry about. I think the thing I am most worried about is my ring, I got it back on Monday after it being soldered to the band and it was too small and had a weird lip on the bottom like the solder wasn't flush so I sent it back right away. They say I will have it back on the 23rd so I'm hoping they can stick to that date.

 

[Angel5000]

That sound so much easier and less stressful than my wedding was!! We didn't do anything really fancy but it was still stressful and felt like an awful lot to set up since we did it all ourselves.

 

[krissie328]

I like simple and easy. My mom and sister planned my entire wedding.. all I did was pick out what I wore and my flowers. Well and showed up.

And honestly I believe it's the marriage that counts so I don't see the need to go all out. But that's really my personality.

 

[todmommy4568]

Yea that is how we felt, no reason to put on a show. Planning big weddings is so stressful! haha

I am sitting here convincing myself that I am pregnant lol AF will probably show tomorrow and prove me wrong. I have acne popping up in weird places like the middle of my forehead, my temple, I have one under my ear pretty much on my neck...basically places I never get acne. My chest is also blowing up with acne which was a huge problem for me while I was pregnant with DS. Probably just AF messing with me but I guess we will see soon enough

 

[Blackrain90]

Tod are you testing tomorrow? Not that we can trust your tests nowadays...

 

[todmommy4568]

I'm not sure if I will....I wasted two tests today on diluted urine because I don't have the willpower that cletus does and just said screw it I'm doing it anyways...clearly nothing otherwise I would've told you all lol. DS usually leaves me alone while I am in the bathroom for the most part but he was insistent on being in there today and gave me 20 questions about what I was doing. "mom what is that? it looks like pee...it smells like pee! Is that pee? thats gross!" Anyways rambling....I think I will wait a couple days and see what happens

 

[todmommy4568]

And she is here. Not full force but has some bleeding when wiping just now so expecting the full arrival tomorrow morning. I think that means I can safely say my LP has increased from 12 days to 14 days though which seems like a very healthy LP. Think I will start temping again for this cycle with my doc appt coming up....I feel like I have enough charts to show that I am ovulating but couldn't hurt to have another

 

[cupcake.]

Ah i was getting my hopes up for you tod! Sorry the b.... showed her face!

 

[mrscletus]

Sorry she showed Tods.. I can't imagine how excited I would have been getting if she was delayed like that!

I tested today.. 9 dpo and negative :/ ugh!

Still early I know.. But I'm pretty convinced I am not pregnant

 

[Angel5000]

sorry Tod. I was so hoping this was your month!! I had convinced myself you must be pregnant

Cletus - you still have time


I'm so glad it is Friday. My kids have been pretty rough this week. I had a "come to Jesus meeting" with my alg2 classes this week. I've never given out so many 0s on a quiz as I did on Wednesday. And the kids were bitchig that I needed to change their test date by an extra week so they could have more time. . . But yet out of 65 alg2 students only 7 did their homework in the last week. And only 3 more did a couple pages. And those kids did fine. Point: do your homework or stop complaining.

Plus 1/3 of my class during the last 2 weeks does nothing but play on their phones. Despite being told to put it away.

It's ok to not know what to do and need more time. It's not ok go be lazy and refuse to do your work and expect me to spend more of my time teaching you when you refused to try in the first place. If they had been doing their work I would have moved the test.

Ok. Rant over. Just annoyed. And so glad it's Friday.

 

[todmommy4568]

Thanks ladies! Now I don't know if we will make it for this cycle, If I O early like I have been then we won't have a chance because the hubs will be hanging out in Canada for annual training until cd 18. I guess only time will tell but I will temp so I know for sure whether we miss it or not.

Cletus you never know! I have my fingers crossed for you this month!

Angel I'm glad you get a break for a couple days, teenagers really suck sometimes! I agree with you if they expect extensions and extra help then they should at least be making an effort.

 

[mrscletus]

Tods- your hubs will be at annual training.. does that mean he is NG?

 

[todmommy4568]

Tods- your hubs will be at annual training.. does that mean he is NG?

Yep!

 

[mrscletus]

Tods- your hubs will be at annual training.. does that mean he is NG?

Yep!

That's great- that's how my and Dh met. We are both still in, only I am active (AGR) and work at our armory full time... 5 1/2 more years and I will have a full 20 active service and can retire. I cannot wait.

We don't go to annual training until Aug, so I am hoping that I can be knocked up by then and not have to go to the field.

wishful thinking right??

 

[todmommy4568]

That's awesome, 20 years! DH has his contract coming up next year and we are debating on the re up. Leaning towards no....my first husband was a combat engineer in the guard and we got divorced right after his deployment ended and he has terrible ptsd he's not the same person I knew and I'm always scared when he has our son. His fiancé and I actually work together to make sure things are going okay and she supervises and let's me know if things are going bad so I'm glad that we have that at least. DH doesn't have that stressful of a job but the thought of deployment still scares the living daylights out of me and he doesn't want to take the chance.

Hopefully you will be knocked by August that would be great! By then you will have had your doc appt so I would think that would give it a better chance of being a reality! ......or you could be pregnant right now!

 

[cupcake.]

Hi ladies
We posted our announcement today so everyone now officially knows!
And people have shown us nothing but love and it's such a great feeling 😍

I'm so happy that everyone now knows. Those first weeks both seemed so long and yet went by so fast as well! Time is a funny thing sometimes.

 

[mrscletus]

Yay cupcake!!! That is awesome!! You must be over the moon with excitement now that you don't have to keep it all hush hush..

Tods- I totally understand the ptsd, thankfully dh's is under control now. it was rough when he first came home tho, that was before kids. All is better now tho.