Thanks everyone! Decided was too tired yesterday and that by the time we would have made it around to BD it would have been pretty late anyway. Keeping FX.
new test date: Feb7, 14DPO. My LP has been 10 days consistently since I dropped bcp but last month it jumped to 13 with no sign of a cp and my cycles are consistently changing every month during the last several months so I'm just going to try to avoid testing until 14DPO.
On a totally different note: does anyone get tender/sore breasts but only on one side? The last several months I've gotten sore/tender breasts at about 6DPO (give or take) but only on the left side. This month it started yesterday (1DPO tentatively) but still only left breast, the right one is fine. I'm very confused by the one sided aspect. I'm assuming it has to do with the progesterone so I'm thinking maybe I'm finally making hte right hormones, but why only one?!