I'm in a really rotten mood. sorry I've been so quiet, ladies...
problem is this: a few weeks ago my downstairs neighbour's flat got new tenants. (we live on the top two floors of a Victorian conversion, the new neighbours are in the 1st floor, middle flat, directly below us.)
now, I bought my flat 9.5 years ago and up till about a year ago never had any problem with any of the neighbours. until about 3 years ago we were all owner-occupiers. then my downstairs neighbour moved in with a bloke and started renting her flat.
none of the tenants were a problem until a year ago, when a gay male couple moved in. now they were fine except they had noisy sex frequently and worse, had massive rows, one of which was so bad we called the police because there was clearly violence going on and the sounds of glass smashing. but it was just noise and not constant, ot enough to complain to them over.
then in about feb this year a couple with a toddler moved in. noise wasn't the issue for me (but it was for my ground floor neighbour) but they were messy - they left piles of footwear - shoes and boots - at the bottom of my stairs, in the communal area, then started to often leave their pushchair lying right across the landing, in my way, and boxes. also, they'd leave litter, like McDonald's bags and jiuce cartons, in the communal hallway. then my ground floor neighbour complained to their landlord and suddenly one day after about 2 months in the flat they left.
now another pair has moved in and they are smokers. I am certain my neighbour (their landlady) will have requested nonsmoking tenants because she was one of the most anal people I have ever come across (she used to complain about the noise my ironing board made on the wooden floor, for example - and I only ironed like once every 2 months!). these people are constantly opening and closing the sash windows and hanging outside to smoke, which is another reason I am sure they are not meant to be smoking in the flat. and the small has tarted to infiltrate my flat. my OH and I both absolutely HATE it and it's not just me being over-sensitive to the smell as he is bothered too (also by the noise of the windows opening and closing every 20 mins).
I don't know what else to do but to complain to their landlady - but I don't have a good relationship with her because of the ironing board thing and also because she tried to stop me listening to music - which was coming from an extremely non-powerful stereo system and never later than 10pm anyway. but I can't bear this smell. it's getting worse - we had visitors today and even they noticed it. we don't even have our windows open and the smell is coming in, so what it's going to be like when it's warmer and we do have the windows open...
and of course, I don't want my baby smelling their stale smoke. it's foul. really rank. I am so upset and I WILL write an email but I just don't know how to word it - I hate making complaints about people. and I'm scared nothing can be done and we're going to have to put up with it. after 9.5 years of being happy in my home, this is honestly the first time I have not wanted to be here, have not felt comfortable here. it's MY HOME ffs.
sorry for the rant. am just at a bit of a loss