Baby Rachel's Journey into the world - caution long post!
First of all big thanks to Kte for letting you all know of our news and to you all for your warm wishes.
Anyway, due date was 24th Oct so you can imagine how much in shock we are with our early arrival! I was due to go for a scan last Friday as the midwife felt that baby was maybe breech at last ante-natal appt. On the Wednesday I had really bad back pain and cramps down below. I put this down to baby maybe turning round! I was up all night in agony and at one point was on all fours! Had a bath at 5am and at 6.30 woke OH and told him I was going to phone hosp for advice. He sprang out of bed but don't think he was prepared for what was to come! Hosp said to come down and get checked so threw a couple of things in a bag thinking we would be home in an hour!
Got to hosp and had to go to obstetrics due to being 35+5. The midwife tested urine etc and said I had a UTI but doc would examine me anyway. Examination revealed a head of dark hair and that I was 6cm!!! Was told I should have baby by 3pm, could not believe it! Got on the gas and air. No baby by 3, waters were broken, given epidural which didn't work and put on drip to try and get last 1cm dilated. Doc examined me again at 6 and said baby was in wrong position and may need forceps. I was told to start pushing at 7 and if no sign after 1 hour I would be prepared for theatre. Taken to theatre at 8 and given spinal and baby delivered by forceps at 21:14 (4) weeks early. Unfortunately, I sustained a third degree tear which is absolutely horrendous and will take time to recover from. Baby was 5,14 and absolutely perfect with a full head of jet black hair - she is her dads double!
We were transferred up to post natal ward where Rachel was closely monitored for a few days as she was jaundiced and was not feeding well with being pre-term. Also, due to the tear my pain control had to be under control. We were allowed home on Monday and are now trying to settle into being a family. Its the most amazing experience but I underestimated labour and the effect on the mother when its not straight forward. Had a bad first night and was very emotional yesterday but taking each day as it comes. OH has been fantastic and its wonderful to watch him with his daughter as she is like a wee doll!
Will get some pics up soon and keep you up to date with our progress. Look forward to hearing about the rest of the October bumpkins and huge congrats to the rest of the arrivals, will be going thru posts now to catch up!
xxxxx