Hi. Been ttc number 2 since about June. We already have a 2 year old boy who is lovely but it hasn't been an easy ride him and he very demanding (although I know they all are). We had a hard time with him as a baby as he had lots of feeding problems.
Anyway I'm keen for a second (maybe obsessing slightly) since we decided we would try again. Nothing has happened yet (took a year last time) but all of a sudden out of the blue last night DH suddenly said he doesn't know if he can handle the stress of a second and he's worried about having a mental breakdown or something If he can't handle it.
I don't know what to do now. I'm gutted about this but have to respect his wishes. I always wanted more than 1 child and was all excited about having another.
He was drunk when he said all this so I'm hoping he changes his mind
Just wanted to vent this and see what people think I should do.
Anyway I'm keen for a second (maybe obsessing slightly) since we decided we would try again. Nothing has happened yet (took a year last time) but all of a sudden out of the blue last night DH suddenly said he doesn't know if he can handle the stress of a second and he's worried about having a mental breakdown or something If he can't handle it.
I don't know what to do now. I'm gutted about this but have to respect his wishes. I always wanted more than 1 child and was all excited about having another.
He was drunk when he said all this so I'm hoping he changes his mind
Just wanted to vent this and see what people think I should do.