Matin
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Oh and wanted to add that we have date night every single friday night!
You're lucky! If we get out alone once every month or two, it's a miracle!
We'll miss date night tonight but making it up tomorrow. I've tried that too...t-shirt no bra and panties or short shorts and obviously flirting. DH must have some kind of man hormone issue because he just isn't interested. I did have to tell him the other night that I feel so unattractive when he behaves that way and that if ther is something more I can do to turn him on, please share!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He can perform, that isn't the issue---getting him to do that is my problem and I've tried EVERYTHING, literally EVERYTHING
umm, let's see..what about
Ginseng?
Hotels or other new/novel environments?
Maybe he does need a check up. I've wondered about my husband too at times. Our low level of BD is a combo of my tiredness, children invading the room/bed until recently and him being prematurely oldmanish.
He's back and forth depending on what's going on in our lives(stress/health), how much privacy we get, moods, how flirty and/or receptive I am etc.
Overall, his drive is okay but definitely lower than my 1st husband's and other men I dated. When I'm tired, I'm quite grateful for that but when I'm charged up or wanting to try for a baby, it can be awkward. What's weird is that when I've been pg, we had sex quite a bit! I honestly wish I'd never even started with him and the world of TTC minutiae, I should've maintained some mystery there.
Since the 5 year old has finally stopped showing up in the middle of the night. I'm going to try for the 'prime the pump' tactic. We'll see if things improve further. <---decaf