ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[sarahincanada]

hi everyone!!

huggles I read your reply when you posted it but didnt have time to come and reply. I totally hear you and understand why now.

sheryl LOL @ eating the cat food. oh what I have to look forward to!

glad things I better I didnt know you went through a rough spot. thats very exciting so perhaps we will revive this thread with our TTCing.

ndh how are you feeling?

I got my smiley face on ov stick a few days ago, so in 2 weeks I will start my FET cycle

cieran has been sleeping in our bed most nights, I just love sleeping next to him and feel like its not natural when he is in his bassinette or the pack and play next to the bed. he is coming up to 6 months and I planned on putting him in his room in his crib, but the thought gives me such anxiety. hubby thinks Im silly and says 'we love him and he should be with us, not separate'. but I guess I do worry about the future and if we will ever get him out of our bed. I asked ny a while ago do most people secretly sleep with their babies? he will fall asleep anywhere I put him so its not him, its me!!

 

[sherylb]

Lots of people admit to co-sleeping. It terrifies me. I won't even let her take a nap in our room for fear of accidentally killing her or her running away. We were talking about how we are going to deal with her being in a toddler bed and being able to leave her room at will last night and I still don't know the answer to that.

Now she eats food off the dirty kitchen floor that has usually been there at least a whole day and food out of the kitchen trash.

 

[NDH]

I wish cosleeping wasn't such a taboo thing in our culture that people feel they have to do it in secret. Instead people ought to be taught how to do it safely. But cosleeping doesn't mean you have to bed share (I know with your dogs you're concerned about having him in bed with you). If there's room you can have his crib in your room too and that's still considered cosleeping. I know several people who have toddler beds set up in their room too who don't actually bed share but still enjoy cosleeping.

I love that Sara is still in our bed and I'm in no hurry to get her out on her own but DH isn't keen on cosleeping with two so we'll soon have to.

Otherwise well.

And yay for two weeks til FET starts!

 

[babyhopes2323]

Oh wow Sarah two weeks.. That is soon exciting.. I'm still waiting for may to hurry up.... Although we are not officially trying, according to the ovulation calculator, I'm supposed to be fertile right about now.. So hopeful for something to happen !

Ndh can't believe you're almost 30 weeks, you will be popping in another 8 or 9... , how are you coping with everything ? Wll you have any additional help ?

 

[NDH]

Good luck Preethi

It's probably more like 10-11 til baby gets here - expecting it go over again. I have my mom in town, but won't have extra help beyond that - and they're going to be away for all of July!

 

[nypage1981]

That will be exciting to see how this cycle of TTC with the FET goes. Hope its easy with Ceiran and not too exhausting for you.

We are doing well. Kian is so busy and rambunctious. Won't stop climbing everything and then throws a temper tantrum if I pull him away. Its literally all day. Thank goodness it will get warm soon, but then I have to figure out how to let him play outside without him running off because he keeps trying already. He's trouble.

We are TTC but thats not going well. Guess I shouldn't be surprised, but its already depressing me and I am getting a bit defeated. I do not forsee a 3rd, but was hoping.

anyways, I am loving the cute things he does, just not the naughty! I am not sure which is more common anymore, he is a stinker!

Preethi, Gemma looks so old! wow! I saw the pic of her just sitting there and she just looks so grown!

 

[sherylb]

Not sure if Kian would go for it but I ordered a harness backpack for Kristin. Our church is having their annual Easter Festival Saturday and they said last year there were 4,000+ kids so definitely not letting her have free roam.

 

[babyhopes2323]

Did I mention she has lost a lot of weight as she was hospitalised for rsv bronchilitis for five days.. It was a very tough week. This was two weeks ago x

Our TTC has really not been going well. I had a pelvic ultrasound and I have multiple cystic ovaries.. A it like pcos.. I'm so upset.. I'm going for hormone blood work on the second day of my period next month, sometime around the 8th and then I will be off to see a fertility specialist.. Sarah,I'm joining your club.. By hopefully it ŵill be cured try taking metmorfin and clomid which is the normal course of action.. In a way I'm glad that I found out because otherwise it would have meant endless months of TTC ith no results and a lot of convincing to dh to get to the hospital as he would have simply said let's try naturally it will happen when it does !! But ow he can see I'm upset as something is wrong and we will oth be visiting the fertility specialist together and hopefully they recommend an SA for him and we both get checked out completely so as to not waste more time..

We have completely given up our holidays this year in hopes of TTC and because we know I will end up a high risk pregnancy as I did with Gemma and shouldn't be travelling whilst pregnant. So I'm hoping we get to the root cause of the issue soon no get it fixed. I'd really like to get preggrs this year x Gemma starts nursery next month as well !

 

[Huggles]

Sorry to hear Gemma had RSV bronchiolitis. Logan had it when he was 6 months old and was also hospitalised for 5 days. It's not fun and not nice to deal with. Glad she's doing better again now.

 

[babyhopes2323]

Yes it was quite tough especially when at thing before diagnosing, she was running on a 40 degree fever and almost passed out, just kept sleeping and wouldn't wake.. Just opened her eyes and kept closing due to high temp. I would definitely not want to see that again ! 6 months is such a young age to have it.. Sorry for Logan x I can't imagine how you went through that.. Mustve been tough x youre very strong xIts horrible since they go off food when they have It.. She literally didnt eat for the first three days.

 

[sarahincanada]

omg everyone I just did a pregnancy test and i got 2 lines
I am in complete shock. I did ovulation sticks this month as i wanted to know roughly when my cycle will start for my FET and we BD'd about around then but honestly after 2 years of infertility, 3 failed IUIs and 1 failed IVF never in a million years did I think it would happen naturally. Im in complete shock. Im worried like what if its not a good embryo or its implanted near my c section incision etc. I got 2 very strong lines on the frer. My period was supposed to be coming around friday and so for fun I peed on the internet cheapy as I didnt feel pre period like and you should have seen my face when I saw a faint 2nd line!! what an amazing feeling. yikes please let it be sticky I guess you can be quite fertile after a baby but also I do wonder if the no stress thing plays a big part? ive been doing acupuncture 2 times a week as was preparing for my FET. oh wow what do I do now, better call see if I need progesterone etc.

ny/babyhopes Im sorry i hope this doesnt upset you if you are struggling, but I think with my history you will be happy for me. Im just so nervous

 

[Huggles]

oh wow sarah, that's awesome! Congrats!

btw, i love your new avatar pic! He's super cute.

 

[babyhopes2323]

Omg Sarah yay !!!! I'm sooooooo happy for you !!! Of course I'm happy for you this is geat news !!! We need pics !!!!!!!!!! I can't believe it !!! Xxx

 

[NDH]

Congrats Sarah that is so thrilling!

 

[babyhopes2323]

Ok so I don't know how to say this. It is 4:30pm and here and I was due for a ct scan on my liver this morning as I have a small birth mark ? No they wanted to make sure it wasn't anything serious. So I went but they refused as my period is due tomorrow and they weren't sure if I was pg. they asked if I wanted to do a blood test but I was fasting and hungry and said No its ok I will reschedule..

I came home and after reading Sarah's post I was so excited but also wished the same for myself. I know I have pcos and thought it impossible for any sort of a bfp... But on a whim I went to the pharmacy and got an early detection pg test.. I drank water as well so didnt expect anything but I was wrong !!!! I definitely saw two lines and it came up in less than a minute... Will post pic below... I'm So scared and really really hoping for a sticky bean ....... It was my dream for this year.. And we have an appointment with he fertility specialist this Saturday.... I hope it is a bfp... Pic to follow xxx Sarah hoping we can be bump buddies !!!

 

[sherylb]

Yay for you ladies!! My 2 best friends have also announced pregnancy this past month so that's amazing for all of you! My new best friend got pregnant her first cycle trying to DTD following my successful chart. My other best friend was still considering whether she wanted #3 so God answered it for her.

Gosh Sarah I am so relieved about how much money this has saved you too!

Stick babies stick!

 

[babyhopes2323]

That 1 and test 2 clearly marked

 

[babyhopes2323]

It's upside down obviously the lighter lines are the test lines and the darker ones the control

 

[sherylb]

I recognize it. My picture is linked into my signature. I remember it well.

 

[sarahincanada]

thanks everyone!!

omg preethi!!! FXd for both of us, Im so nervous as I dont know if a natural pregnancy will survive for me. I was going to reply to your other post, my friend has polycystic ovaries (dont know spelling) and had 2 natural pregnancies, both right when she was going to have treatments. when was your last period?

im going to have blood tests tomorrow and wednesday to see if doubling, then a scan at my FS office end of the month to see if theres a heartbeat...even though natural I guess they still consider me a patient so thats good.

im not getting too excited just incase, but if this is not meant to be I have my frosties so its all good.

i will post my pics later, have to email from my phone. the clearblue says 2-3 weeks, hcg should be over 200 for that result but we will see