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ladies just catching uo when i read about bella and amos i am so sorry x was hoping for a bit of reasurance- i have been spotting brown blood since friday with period cramps-went for scan today by my dates i am 8 weeks tomorrow but the scan shown 5.5-6-no heartbeat so either my dates are wrong or baby died at 6 weeks they did bloods which will be repeated after 48 hours but i am devastated. i was pretty sure of my dates as i used ov tests but having said that i didn't get a positive test until 8 days after i thought my period was due i thought i was 5 weeks then by dates but maybe not-am i grasping at straws here and is this the beginning of a m/c
 
Keeping my fingers crossed that its just a mix up on your dates glitter x
 
been looking at diary all day if i count from date of conception that i think it was i am 5.5-6 weeks spot on with the scan but if i use the calc from date of last period i am nearly 8 weeks so is the scan giving the right dates for me afterall-now i am torturing myself x
 
oh glitter! [-o< I'm so sorry you have to go through this mental scary wait. The HcG test can't come soon enough.

obviously, no way of knowing how they dated your scan. you could call them? or you can wait for bloods? I think the bloods will give you the most definite answer because even with a phone call to radiologist office you might still wonder whether someone is mixing dates.

Oh god, what an awful wait. my thoughts and prayers are with you glitter. sending positive, warm and sunny vibes from New Zealand.:hugs:
 
Oh Glitterqueen, I am so sorry you're going through such a confusing time. I too hope that the dates are mixed up. Will be keeping everything crossed for you that the blood test comes back good and puts your mind at rest. Wishing you lots of strength and wishing that I could do something. Will be rooting for you, hun :hugs:
 
Glitterqueen - I'm so sorry, hope it's just wrong dates! Wish we could've offered some reassurance instead ;-(
Sending all my hope and sticky dust your way...
 
oh ladies i have been catching up on the thread :(

you poor ladies i can't imagine how sad you all feel, i don't have any words of wisdom for you ,i just hope that next time things work out right .....

and glitter f'xd for you hun i really hope it's good news :)

af came for me as usual but im not giving up hope still awaiting my oh results !!
 
ladies thank you so much for your kind thoughts especially as so many of you are going through so much yourselves. I am still cramping but bleeding is just still brown spotting trying hard not to be negitive but its hard will keep you all posted xxx
 
Ok thanks lisa.....just counting down my days lol

what about you?
 
:loopy:im good, kids are driving me mad there is only so much screaming one woman can take !!
 
I'm okay too, thanks - A day behind Spencerbear and counting them down too.

Sending you all big hugs :hugs:
 
hi ladies
had my first hcg result 6608 doc said that was very high but it all depends on if it doubles or not-they will ring tonight with result. had my midwife appt today-about an hour before i went the blood changed to red when i wiped and the cramps are getting worse. she said it could still be all ok but i am really starting to doubt it. started to cry at the appointment felt like an idiot but i really think this is it i am losing my much longed for baby
 
hospital just rang-hcg only increased by 200 so looks like the baby died at 6 weeks. have to go back up in morning for scan to confirm. so sad thanks to you ladies for your support i think i will need it over the next few weeks x
 
Glitter- so sorry :(
I am not positive all the time, believe me. But I have to keep in mind what my end goal is- and that is to have a little baby in my arms. I am going to try to stay positive until they take out all my girly organs and tell me it's not possible! I just refuse to give up that dream.
I am here for you if you need me....hugs
 
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