So I am due on Feb 18. My OH is scheduled to be in on the 16th for his two weeks of leave. This has been planned since right after I found out I was pregnant. I had come to terms with the fact that since he was only going to get here a few days before my due date, there was the chance of her coming early and him missing it. If she came on her due date or even a week late, no problem. I had planned on and accepted this fact. Well he gets online today and tells me they changed his leave!!!! He will be here Feb 3!! I am freaking out. He will be leaving back on the 17th, so a day before I'm due. For starters, obviously I am afraid of him missing it and not meeting his daughter while he's home. But I'm also worried about her coming early. I know it's an irrational fear most likely. Someone tell me it's irrational!! At my 36 week appointment I wasn't dilated or anything. And aside from major pelvic bone pain and mild period like cramps, I have nothing going on that would indicate early labor. But now I'm scared. What if she comes before he gets here? What if she comes after she leaves? Oh baby, please hang on at least another week and a half!! I would imagine my hormones are also making me a bit irrational. But the fear of her coming TOO early, like in the next week, is bugging me far more than the fear of her being late. How silly is that?! Someone tell me it'll work out how it's supposed to work out! I know what will be will be. But this is just not what was planned! I'm not upset at all. In fact I am so excited to see him. I'm just so nervous is all. I haven't seen him in eight months and he's not seen me pregnant ever. I'm excited and nervous and so concerned about when she's going to get here. This was a pointless thread. lol. I just had to get it out.