One Tubers

[caz & bob]

girls chilling today no gym x x x

 

[Welshbean]

Hi All,

Sorry I haven't been around for ages. I'm heading for the 20 week scan now (1st March) and I'm beginning to feel movement every day, which is very reassuring.

I've had a quick catch up, but sorry to anyone I've missed (we're such a big group now!).

Teesgirl - I think it took about 6 weeks for my AF to return after surgery. Good luck with your recovery.. Take it easy..

Cyclura - Welcome back and congrats on your latest bundle of joy!

Milosmum - congrats onthe BFP. Lovely news.

PM - Glad the reflux is getting better. Enjoy every minute!

Shells Angels and Olivia - Wow you are both getting close to D day now! Good luck with the deliveries to you both!

Kimmy - hope all is well with you!

Kat - Hope your little man is feeling better.

Jess - Are you in the blooming stage now? My skin and hair are still horrible, so hoping it's going to kick in soon for me now! I hope you are able to relax a bit now and enjoy the rest of the pregancy.

H4L, AC, C&B, 4magpies (and anyone else!) good luck this cycle - You can do it!!!

I'll let you know how the scan goes (I'm worried as always!) Wb xxx

 

[Tasha16]

hi just wondered if i can join in, ive just found this thread. I had an ectopic in jan 2009 and had my left tube removed x

 

[puppymom32]

Welcome Tasha so sorry for your losses. Big hugs

 

[jessica716]

welshbean.... Blooming?? Don't know about that! Haha.... Oily blotchy skin and feel like i look like a beached whale.... But thats my opinion... Other people have said i look like i'm blooming now....

I think a lot of it is just cos i don't feel attractive when i'm pregnant.... My heaviest weight pre pregnancy was 7st8lbs and now i'm 9st1lb and no longer have a 6pac... I miss being able to see my feet....but i know i'll miss my bump when little man arrives! I'm sure you're glowing really...but its hard to feel great with all the pregnancy symptoms sometimes! Haha

Xxx

 

[angelcake71]

Welcome Tasha really sorry for your loss hunni...
are you ttc again?? xx

 

[Hpyns4life]

Welcome Tasha!
Welshbean thanks for the positive thoughts!

My FIL didn't call yesterday like he should have. I'm thinking he didn't get to talk to his fs friend like he thought he would. So I'm STILL waiting

Oh! Quick question. How long did it take you ladies to feel happy and normal again after you lost your tube? It has taken me 5 1/2 months, but just realized I made it out a few days ago, woot woot

 

[Tasha16]

Welcome Tasha really sorry for your loss hunni...
are you ttc again?? xx

Thanks Everyone!

Yeah were trying again, hopefully the next pregnancy will be a sticky one X

 

[KimmyB]

Welcome Tasha, I hope your TTC journey for your forever baby is short and sweet
WB, glad to have you back! Good luck with the scan!
Jess I really miss my baby bump (obv I'd rather have little man here!) but still, makes me nostalgic when I see pregnant ladies. Can't wait to do it all again!
Hypns I hope FIL phones soon!

 

[jessica716]

hypns... I didnt really have time to get used to the idea... I found out i was 12 weeks pregnant less than a week later i was told it was ectopic and lost my tube....
I was told that due to it being my first pregnancy i only had 10% chance of concieving naturally with one tube..(no idea where they pulled that figure from!) so we decided to ntnp as i was assuming the worst and that my option would be ivf next.... 3 weeks after my first af i was pregnant again with my sticky bean...

For the first 3 months i worried constantly, i was certain something would go wrong again.... But so far so good...
I think when you and your body is ready it'll happen... Glad to hear you are feeling back to yourself now... Come on that xx


Tasha... Hi and welcome, hope you get your soon

kimmy.... Haha i dont think i could cope with pregnancy again but i'd like to have my bump.... It makes a good arm rest and i'll miss feeling him move when i'm going to sleep or first thing in the morning.. Such a more peaceful and pleasant wake up than crying or dirty nappies....haha xxx hope the next 14 weeks goes fast! Just want to meet him now! X

 

[jessica716]

....kimmy..... Check you out with the weight loss
well done! Xx

 

[KimmyB]

Aw thanks Jess! I gained 3.5 stone in pregnancy Only 6lb left til I'm my pre-pregnancy weight of 9.5stone

 

[puppymom32]

Welcome Tasha!
Welshbean thanks for the positive thoughts!

My FIL didn't call yesterday like he should have. I'm thinking he didn't get to talk to his fs friend like he thought he would. So I'm STILL waiting

Oh! Quick question. How long did it take you ladies to feel happy and normal again after you lost your tube? It has taken me 5 1/2 months, but just realized I made it out a few days ago, woot woot

I still dont think I feel normal or happy sometimes after losing both tubes have good and then bad days and its been over 9 mo. Glad u r feeling better hun.

 

[Hpyns4life]

puppymom: I'm so sorry for your losses You have a very courageous story and have been able to help so many other women through their difficult times. Because you started this thread over 2 years ago there has been a net of love and support for those who otherwise would have been lost to fall into. I was drowning and you helped me come to the surface. I haven't been on bnb very long but as soon as I reached out and found others who had been through and were dealing with the same feelings as me, I was saved. I attribute you ladies to my return to the light. Thank you! I'm sure I will have many moments in the future that are not so good, but I'm so thankful for the breakthrough I've had. I know this will never completely go away, so that's why I was asking how other women felt in the long term. Thank you for sharing

 

[angelcake71]

Welcome Tasha really sorry for your loss hunni...
are you ttc again?? xx

Thanks Everyone!

Yeah were trying again, hopefully the next pregnancy will be a sticky one X

aww I hope so too hun xx

 

[angelcake71]

Welcome Tasha!
Welshbean thanks for the positive thoughts!

My FIL didn't call yesterday like he should have. I'm thinking he didn't get to talk to his fs friend like he thought he would. So I'm STILL waiting

Oh! Quick question. How long did it take you ladies to feel happy and normal again after you lost your tube? It has taken me 5 1/2 months, but just realized I made it out a few days ago, woot woot

I had my e/p October 2010 and still have bad days and good days... I guess if I get a BFP and go on to have a baby I will be ok..

 

[caz & bob]

girls weekend woopp love it this week has flown buy well ff says im 3 dpo but i think im 4 dpo been the gym had a light work out x x x

 

[puppymom32]

puppymom: I'm so sorry for your losses You have a very courageous story and have been able to help so many other women through their difficult times. Because you started this thread over 2 years ago there has been a net of love and support for those who otherwise would have been lost to fall into. I was drowning and you helped me come to the surface. I haven't been on bnb very long but as soon as I reached out and found others who had been through and were dealing with the same feelings as me, I was saved. I attribute you ladies to my return to the light. Thank you! I'm sure I will have many moments in the future that are not so good, but I'm so thankful for the breakthrough I've had. I know this will never completely go away, so that's why I was asking how other women felt in the long term. Thank you for sharing

Thanks hun you are so sweet. I agree just having people to go through the ups and downs with and feeling like you are not alone has made all the difference in the world. And to be able to see all the success stories on here is so amazing and gives so much hope. Hoping you will be one of them very soon.

 

[milosmum]

Hpyns - I agree puppymom has been a great inspiration and huge source of PMA on here and it is wonderful to share all these difficult times with other girls who just understand what is going on.

I still have up days and down days especially now I am pregnant again - to start with all I wanted was my BFP and now I've got it I will worry til I have had my scan to see if its in the right place! Its just the start of the next 20+ years of worry isn't it! I am trying to relax and enjoy it though.

Tasha - lovely to have you here with us but I am sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you have a short TTC journey xxx

 

[Hpyns4life]

FIL called!!! The specialist said that the tube was indeed open and said we could most definitely try to conceive naturally! He did recommend that we see an even specialer specialist, haha, for a second opinion on the risks of ectopic. So... looks like I'm gonna have some fun without so much of the worry Of course I'm still worried that it will be ectopic, but if I never try, I'll never know