Fifi-Folle unfortunately I won't be testing this month as my DH was in hospital when I OV so there is no chance for me this month. I'm due to OV on Christmas Day this month though so hopefully I will be testing in January.
SD's Mum is an absolute nightmare my DH was only with her for a month before she got pregnant "accidentally on purpose" despite the fact he didn't love her he stayed as long as he could (for his daughter) but due to her drinking and drug taking left when SD was a year old. That was 10 years ago and she has been a pain ever since. It's got a lot worse in the last year since we got married and some of the things she says to my SD are horrendous. Before we got married she used to tell her all the time that we wouldn't go through with it etc, then as it got closer she started telling her once we were married we wouldn't be bothered about her anymore. Now that she has been proved wrong on that front she has started on the baby thing. At the end of the day she is jealous of our relationship, jealous of my relationship with my SD (who has repeatedly said she wishes I were her Mum) and terrified that she is going to lose her daughter as SD has said she wants to come and live with us in the future. Rather than bad-mouthing us her time would be better spent getting off the booze and trying to be a better Mum. Unfortunately she lacks any emotional intelligence or self awareness and prefers to see herself as a victim.The vile woman says the most horrendous things that you can't imagine any mother would say to her children. For example she think's nothing of calling my SD a c**t . People like her just don't deserve to have children. Rant over...LOL!
I've had a very productive day today. I made a list of things I need to do around the house if I happen to get my BFP and a small person will be moving in. I made a good start today by clearing out the cupboard under the stairs - I have been putting it off for months. I think it's better for my state of mind to stay positive and I guess it's that "nesting instinct" in all of us that makes us want to sort domestic thing's out. I guess it's my way of having a bit of control over this crazy TTC rollercoaster...
Hope everyone is having a good evening
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SD's Mum is an absolute nightmare my DH was only with her for a month before she got pregnant "accidentally on purpose" despite the fact he didn't love her he stayed as long as he could (for his daughter) but due to her drinking and drug taking left when SD was a year old. That was 10 years ago and she has been a pain ever since. It's got a lot worse in the last year since we got married and some of the things she says to my SD are horrendous. Before we got married she used to tell her all the time that we wouldn't go through with it etc, then as it got closer she started telling her once we were married we wouldn't be bothered about her anymore. Now that she has been proved wrong on that front she has started on the baby thing. At the end of the day she is jealous of our relationship, jealous of my relationship with my SD (who has repeatedly said she wishes I were her Mum) and terrified that she is going to lose her daughter as SD has said she wants to come and live with us in the future. Rather than bad-mouthing us her time would be better spent getting off the booze and trying to be a better Mum. Unfortunately she lacks any emotional intelligence or self awareness and prefers to see herself as a victim.The vile woman says the most horrendous things that you can't imagine any mother would say to her children. For example she think's nothing of calling my SD a c**t . People like her just don't deserve to have children. Rant over...LOL!
I've had a very productive day today. I made a list of things I need to do around the house if I happen to get my BFP and a small person will be moving in. I made a good start today by clearing out the cupboard under the stairs - I have been putting it off for months. I think it's better for my state of mind to stay positive and I guess it's that "nesting instinct" in all of us that makes us want to sort domestic thing's out. I guess it's my way of having a bit of control over this crazy TTC rollercoaster...
Hope everyone is having a good evening
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