hi made my first trip to the big mothercare at the weekend and felt completely overwhelmed and a bit useless to be honest.... there was so much stuff and it just made me feel like i didnt know anything. all the different types of babygros... i dont even know what they wear, do they wear a vest underneath, how many do you need, some have long arms, no arms, short arms etc.. all the blankets, how many do they need etc... do you need sterilisers if brestfeeding etc, million questoins that i cant even think of half the time feel like crying just thinking about it. everyone seems to say that you will know what to do etc when you have the baby but at the moment i am just wishing for a step by step instruction manual as i feel like i dont know what to do, my poor baby. how will i know when to feed it, when to put to sleep etc. feel like my head is going to explode hardly bought a thing and left feeling like a failure and unable to cope... does anyone else feel like this?