Overwhelming Jealousy towards preg ladies

[MrsMatt]

ohhh and that little video made me cry!!!

 

[chef_mommy]

I highly doubt I should be saying anything considering I havent been trying that long.. but it seems like as soon as we started TTC everywhere I turned there was a precious bundle of joy. Im so jealous of all these young girls who dont try or do anything to get pregnant but alot of women here try and try but it just takes forever.. I dont understand life sometimes.

 

[babyhopes2010]

u perfectely within ur right to have a lil moan.wether its 6 months or 6years its still a hard dark journey to walk

 

[chef_mommy]

I just wish I could get my cycle regular so I would have some sort of idea when I ovulate. Do you know of anything I can take to help get my cycle regular? AF was here on 20 -24 of Sept. then again on Oct. 3-5 but hasnt been back since. Ive taken multiple tests and been to the dr. All BFN's. Whats going on?

 

[babyhopes2010]

Have u been on birth control recently? I take maca root.its a herbal thingy it has helped regulate my cycle,well ish lol my last cycle was 30days and this one im now on 31 days so we shall see

 

[chef_mommy]

I got off BC a few months ago.. so I know thats the reason but I just want to be able to track my ovulation..

 

[lisabutterfly]

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[babyhopes2010]

i think i may have only started ovulating in june.......iv been temping since july and didnt relise all ov signs until then so i dont think i had many ovulatory months x

 

[chef_mommy]

Thats another thing, im oh so confused about.. temping. I started with that two days ago. And the second morning my temp was up .5 degrees from the morning before. All the books I have read say that would mean I have ovulated.. or should I wait atleast a month before start reading into my temping issue.???

 

[babyhopes2010]

Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! go to fertilty friend type it in there.ave a look at mine this is roughly what it should look like red is ovulation
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ovulation shows when you have 3 days of consecutive temp rises x
for example low temps day 14 highier for 3 days then that meane day 14 u prob ovulated x

 

[chef_mommy]

THANK YOU SOOOOOOO MUCH!! You have been soo much help!!
I hope you get your BFP soon!!! =]

 

[serendippy]

I can relate to all this. Weve been trying for 18 months nearly and age isnt on my side (nearly 44). I kinda went off the deep end when we cudnt try last cycle. To be honest it was a bit of a wake up call for me cos i was more worried about not being in that cyde than i was about my partner and the worry he was goin thru over a family member. I was totally irrational and extrememly obsessed.

Ive taken a step back now and im more relaxed about it..i had to be really cos i didnt like waht i was turning into.

 

[pigsy]

I am the same. I can't go to my friend's baby's first birthday party as it will be full of kids.

 

[PocoHR]

Its hard, fx for us all!

 

[babyhopes2010]

when i say jealous i mean i long for my own baby lol not someone elses
but i know itll happen at perfect time x

 

[L.E.]

Hey I just wanted to chime in. I have basically been bleeding most of the time since I had my son 4 years ago... no health insurance for the past 3, and the drs just want to put me on the pill (been there done that several times). Anyway, last month my relative got pregnant on her first "try" even though she wasn't sure if she wanted a 2nd child or not. I just found out this week too that my nephew (who is 18) and his girlfriend who just turned 16 are expecting. Really? And how am I supposed to be happy about either one? I also know about 8 other people who are pregnant right now and another dozen or more who have had babies in the past year. I pray for the pregnant ones every night. I would never wish anything bad on them but it's hard to be genuinely happy for them when you're broken and don't know how to fix it. Anyway, I hope we all get our bundles of joy that we so desire!

 

[babyhopes2010]

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