bostonblonde
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My sister-in-law got pregnant exactly the same time I did, so she is having her baby in December, around Christmas. I was really happy we were both going to have Christmas babies together... then I lost mine at 9 weeks. Hers is still going strong. I don't even want to think about how many weeks she is now, because i should have been that many weeks.
Here's the kicker: We are going to be with DH's family for a week or so this Christmas. I know for a fact that SIL is going to have her baby while we're over. I just know it. I know the whole visit will be completely focused on her having her baby, or if she's already had it, it will be all about the newborn. Our visit will probably be on the back burner even. It will probably even overshadow Christmas itself.
It's a nightmarish situation for me, because my DH hardly sees his family and it would be unfair to not allow him to see them at Christmas. It almost makes me cry to think how painful it will be to be around when she is having her baby, when I should have been having mine!
I am a combination of jealous, angry, frustrated and sad. How do I cope with such a painful situation this Christmas?
Here's the kicker: We are going to be with DH's family for a week or so this Christmas. I know for a fact that SIL is going to have her baby while we're over. I just know it. I know the whole visit will be completely focused on her having her baby, or if she's already had it, it will be all about the newborn. Our visit will probably be on the back burner even. It will probably even overshadow Christmas itself.
It's a nightmarish situation for me, because my DH hardly sees his family and it would be unfair to not allow him to see them at Christmas. It almost makes me cry to think how painful it will be to be around when she is having her baby, when I should have been having mine!
I am a combination of jealous, angry, frustrated and sad. How do I cope with such a painful situation this Christmas?