Jellybeanx2
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Hi! I have not posted before. I have a question and I hope no one will think I'm insensitive. In fact I'm being the opposite. My sil and her husband struggled to get pregnant for their first child. They have 1 and they have been trying for 2 years to have a second. In those 2 years I have gotten pregnant, had a child, and now I'm pregnant again. I have tried to keep the secret as long as possible. We found out at Thanksgiving her only sister (my only other sil) is also pregnant. So of the three of us 2 are pregnant, and not her. I want her to be able to have another child so bad and honestly I have this picture of three new babies at Christmas next year. But I know she isn't pregnant now. She has never ever said the first word to me about her I struggle to conceive. I know all this second hand. My husband and I were going to tell at Christmas until we found out sil 2 is pregnant. Now I'm wondering if I should tell sil 1 in advance so she isn't surprised when we tell everyone else. I would completely understand if she struggles with this. But I don't know if I can go to her in advance without making her uncomfortable since she has never told me about her problems. Should we even tell at Christmas or just tel everyone in a more "low key" way? Can anyone give me some advice?thank you!