naderz
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I cryed for about 6 weeks solid that i failed.
This is what is bugging me so much, i cried and cried like you and although we know it's not the end of the world is this just our motherly instincts (and a shed loads of homrones!) making us upset or is it the lack of support, and general attitude of the midwives/doctors/hv we see.
I cried to my midwife and health visitor but neither of them said 'ok lets try it now or ill give you more home visits to help you' they didnt even encourage me to keep trying they just told me to think positivly that Noah is getting fed and doing well. and that they deal with this problem all the time.
I guess its our motherly instincts to feel guilty about it.