*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[Smiler82]

That is weird! Maybe she doesn't quite understand! So silly, what on earth is there to think about?

Oh are you going to do hypno birthing? I looked into that when I was pregnant before. I watched a video of someone giving birth using the techniques and honestly she made it look like a walk in the park! It was amazing. Then someone I know used it for her second baby and she said it was such an awesome experience.

That's nice you go to a group; I looked to see if there were any round where I live after you said it before but sadly nothing Will just have to make do with my iPod

 

[lilesMom]

yeah i am babe, try anyway 2 of my friends used the cds and swear by um
so cant hurt to try
i dont like the thought of the epidural cos of the slight risk of complications and the way they have to give it to u. i wont rule it out though, i could be shouting for it after

the med. cds at home r lovely too and give a real benefit xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

That's so cool Yeah I heard having an epidural makes it harder to push the baby out since you can't feel anything. I have no idea if I could do it without pain relief but seeing TV programmes where the mum has loads of drugs, the babies come out all dazed and don't cry because they're spaced out. I don't blame the mums at all and I can't criticise since I have no idea what it feels like, but it did make me take a 2nd look at hypno birthing. I hope it works for you Another friend tried to stay natural but after 33 hours she was begging for an epi bless her xxx

 

[lilesMom]

yup not ruling anything out cos have no idea how its gonna go but would prefer not.
my friends daughter had a baby and got epidural, she was complaining about feeling funny but as she was 15 they didnt really listen to her properly and sent her home, she was back in 3 days later looking like she had a stroke, they had to remove fluid from her spine. she is fine now though but it would ruin ur chance sof bf and everything.
my niece who has 7 week old baby, the lady in the bed beside her had to have some blood taken and injected into her spine cos of something gone worng again.
it really out me off. but then again ive heard of way more people who have been perfect after and would swear by it
my mom had 12 kids and reckons its not half as hard as people say it is
she is tougher than me though

 

[Smiler82]

12!!!! Wowsers! It must get easier the more babies you have, surely!

Oh that's awful about those people having things go wrong. It can be scary eh

 

[lilesMom]

yeah she is prob forgettin the hard one, which is usaully the first one ha ha. xxxxx

u started planning for xmas? ive some shopping done... debating finishing it soon, i always do this i start off nice nad early and then think sure im grand now ive some done and then be in a bit of a rush to finish, sur ei might have lots f time anyway if im not workin,

r u on same dose of clomid now this month? xxxxxxxx it worked for u cycle and O wise last time didnt it? xxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Haha I am the same...done a few presents thinking, oh how organized am I! But then stopped and actually will most likely end up leaving it til the last minute But I just hate the crowds, am doing some of it online but not all so the stuff I'm buying in the shops I want to get it done before it gets too crazy. I got some cute stuff for my niece and nephew and I'm dying to give them their presents!

Yup I'm on 100mg clomid again. I really hope it carries on working. Got scared by reading stories of ladies who find it works one month but not the next. Really got to try and banish the negativity and worry xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

its hard isnt it not to worry but we r team PMA most days xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
fx for u this month hon xx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks sweetie xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i better go, my god daughter is cuttin my hair for in a bit. she is in second yr hairdressing, very handy for me xx

 

[DiscoRia]

Hey ladies, i'm just dropping in to say that i'm still alive, still in the tww. It's been a really hectic week at work, so haven't done much except sleep and work.

I want to come and catch up properly soon, i'm always thinking of you ladies xx xx

 

[lilesMom]

hi sweetie, u too xxxx

 

[DiscoRia]

for disco ria
1) relationship: your primary relationship is with urself and with god, to heal any relationship u need to nuggle more closely to ur loving creator. as u feel safe and loved within so shall other realtionships heal and bloom. you r entering a more positive phase in your relationships. send light , love and angels to ur current relationship

2) perfect timing: now is the perfect moment for u to act on ur inspirations., the doors r open while u walk through with help and support on ur side. dont delay or procrastinate , all of the ingredients are right for ur success. everything is on ur side supporting ur pos outcome . take action now and this situation will work out well.

3) ground urself : although its pleasnt to float heavenward , your attention and work r needed on earth., we are helping u balance the spiritual and the material so that u can enjoy a fuflilling earthly life. your energy and attention need to be grounded. if u have been feeling spacey and confused this is why. be down to earth and authentic in ur realtionships.
hope this makes sense for u hon

LilesMom, thank you so much for doing this for me It does make sense, but with regards to lots of different things in my life... I guess that's where no 3 comes in. I need to ground myself and focus more, I've got too many ideas and whatnot going on in my head right now I'm a bit divided.

Time to focus and take action xx Thanks again lovely xx

 

[DiscoRia]

Smiler, I'm sorry that last cycle didn't work out for you, but as you said, it's still November, so your prediction can still come true as far as your cycles go Your visualizing pregnancy meditation sounds awesome, it makes me wish I used iTunes! I might have to try and search for it elsewhere. Who is it by? xx

Hopeful, I'm so happy that your scan went well! I'm sure that you're not the only mummy to be that worries throughout this delicate time *hugs* it's only natural xx

LilesMom, I'm sorry that you're all up in the air with work. It really sucks when you don't know what's going on, especially if the doc seems like she may be changing her mind. *hugs* keep your chin up my love, things will work out just as they are meant to xx

Also, hypnobirthing for the win! haha, a good friend of mine used hypnobirthing techniques and had a wonderul unmedicated homebirth experience. I am hoping that when it's my turn I will be as prepared as I possibly can for any outcome but I would really REALLY love to go down the same route

 

[lilesMom]

thanks disco ria im hoping hypno works for me too, but cant rule anything out xxx
ur always so upbeat ,its lovely PMA all the way xxxxxxxx

 

[Hopeful335]

Hey ladies just thought I'd say hi! I've not really had much to say these last few days (not like me) but still thinking of you all. Liliesmom scan this week? X x

Discoria, Babynemine and Smiler are we all waiting for ov? x

 

[lilesMom]

hi hopeful we have all been a bit quiet not much new with me either, yeah scan thurs, had a really wobbly day yest. in one way i wish this baby was born already
after thurs hopping i can enjoy being preg xxxxxxxxxxxx
been feeling quite sicky too, its changed though. now food just seems disgusting all the time and have to amke myself eat. i could be hungry and eveyrthing i think will i eat im like no, yuck ..... hoping it passes soon xxxxx not the healthiest eater at the mo cos of it. xxxxxxxxxx
hope every1 is good xxxxxxxxxx

 

[DiscoRia]

I hope you're feeling better today lilesmom

I had written this long post on sat morning, following my last, about what is going on with me, but my internet died, do I never got to post it. Shortly afterward I had a little meltdown, but was comforted muchly by my lovely husband. This led to us dtd which brought on spotting that is now AF. At first I was really bummed out, but i'm now on my second day of real bleeding and i'm happy as I feel like my body is doing what it's supposed to and that this period is morelike those I used to have during 2011. So i'm hopeful

I also just bought some clear blue digi OV tests, so I'll be waiting eagerly for them to arrive

So, i'm now in the tww for OV. We really live our lives in 2 week increments when TTC huh

Have a wonderful Monday ladies xx

 

[Smiler82]

Hi everyone

been away for a few days, had a nice weekend with my family Hope you all had good weekends too

Discoria sorry AF got you, but good that you're feeling positive that at least your body is doing the right thing! The track I've been listening to is called Visualizing Pregnancy by Kathy Freston. You might be able to find it on Amazon or something. I really like listening to it before I go to sleep, it's really relaxing

Lilesmom how you doing sorry to hear you had a wobbly day. Hope you're feeling better? Not long til your scan... I've got everything crossed for you. Your symptoms sound like they're causing you a bit of jip so whilst that's not fun it is a good sign xxxx Lots of love to you. Any news about work?

Hopeful - how about you? Feeling rubbish?!

Yeah I am on CD7 now so waiting for O. Really hope it happens the same time as last cycle...terrified of being one of the unlucky ladies who find not all their clomid cycles work But will start OPKs on CD10 I think just in case I'm really lucky and I ov earlier than last time I'm not being scanned this month so want to be sure I don't miss anyhting. But we're just going to have sex every other day and be done with it

I had a lovely time this weekend spending some quality time with my niece and nephew. I just love them so much Hopefully they will have a cousin soon!

 

[lilesMom]

disco ria sorry u r out this month sweetie, but hurray for opks xxxxx
yup baby making is mostly about waiting , sucky xxxxxxx but worth it.
fx for u for next cycle. opks r a great idea cos a lot of the time people think they know hwen they Ov but it can often be different to when they think .... best o luck with them hon xxxx

smiler thanks hon, yeah yucky symptoms but good to have um in a way, its wearing me down a little now but be worth it in the end be worth it thurs if good news
i got a break yest eve and had roast chicken dinner, its never been so delicious , ha ha
no news on work, doc iddnt get back to me for 3 days so i made a appointment to go there today, gettin sick of my doc, my mom has the same doc . my mom is on a lot of tablets for various thing but she went back last week to get her prescriptions and the doc messed um up totally. she gave her the wrong blood pressure tablets and half her odse of another tablet and completly forgot one thing...... she isnt the most attentive of docs.
smiler glad u had a great weekend with family hon, xxxx i love spending time with my fave smallies too they will have a cousin in no time honey xxxxxxxxxx fx for u this cycle too xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx