*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[Smiler82]

Lilesmom your doctor sounds like a right plonker!! How did you get on at your appointment?

How are you feeling today? Good you got to eat a lovely roast, yum yum

AFM I'm getting excited and nervous....really hope I o early again this cycle. I really feel like the meditation is helping too. I still have down days, worry about clomid not working etc etc but it's helping me to stay positive. But keep sending me your PMA ladies!!!

xx

 

[Hopeful335]

Hi everyone! Really sorry Discoria af poo it can be so depressing!!! Smiler you're sounding more positive-of course you'll have wobbly depressed days. I'm pregnant and I have them-I get so scared something will happen and we'll lose Henry Lily-oh that's what we call him/her!! It's a flower that flowers in June (when I'm due) and is a type of lily my faves, and I'd used to relieve nausea during preg so that's our name!!! No one else knows that ha ha!! Anyway I'm keeping everything crossed for you xxx

Lilesmom your doc sounds rubbish! Clearly she thinks you have nothing to do but sit around waiting for her!! Hope it was more helpful when you saw her today??

I'm okay plodding on various symptoms coming and going. I thought ms had gone but back this morning! Tiredness gets better and worse some days, cramps some days, headaches-oh lots!!!!! But I'm fine worry is the overriding thing that stays with me my 12 week scan is Monday and I can't wait for it to come! I just hope it's all okay!!!!!! Lilesmom I'm thinking of you for Thursday I really am I pray for you too!!!!!! x o x o

 

[babybemine]

Give thanks for all the blessings which have not yet been received but that are already on their way!

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[lilesMom]

smiler , my doc just said its my choice if i go back r not, she said ask um in the hosp on thurs what they think, least im not under pressure anyway xx if its safe il go back, could do with dosh and distraction xxx
meditation is great. i just had my final one of my 5 week meditation classes tonight and it was unreal its healing and meditation. i felt like i had been steam rollered after but in a good way she said to envisage what u wished for, so i saw me with Lo in my arms breast feeding while OH sat beside us was lovely . then she said to wish for one thing and then imagine it has already happened , i wished to not worry and i dont anymore. i feel like someone has just removed it all from my head and heart
it was soooooo good, i hope it stays with me i can always meditate myself and do it again anyway. it was so lovely i cant describe it properly xxxxxxxxx
sendin u lots of PMA xxxxxxxxxx ucan have some of my zen xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

hopeful thanks sweetie, im praying for u too xxx im sure we wil both be fine ( i hope ) hee hee xxxxxxxx thank god we have our scans soon xxxxxxxxxx
i call my baby the giraffe ha ha. an early conversation me and oh had started it off.
i was being a nervous nelly before my first scan and i said 'what if the doc tomoro says its......' i was gonna finish it with that the baby is gone but i felt like i was worrying OH and jinxing my baby so it got finished with 'a giraffe' , so i ended up saying 'what if doc says its a giraffe', im pretty sure OH knew what i had been about to say
i also call it bub sometimes bit more normal

babybemine , dead right hon xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Lilesmom that sounds so fantastic I'm so happy for you that the meditation has helped you so much it really does sound awesome. That's brilliant it's helped you to stop worrying

That is so sweet about how you came to call your LO 'giraffe' I love that I can't believe you ladies are 12 weeks already! Am sending you both PMA right back and lots of love and everything crossed for more good news

Babybemine you are right That's what the woman says at the end of my meditation track, to say thank you for the things that haven't appeared yet but are on the way. She says it's about putting the vibes out there and to keep yourself open to it happening A lady on another thread I chat on just got her bfp and she said she did visualisation and meditation too, so that was really great to hear

xxx

 

[lilesMom]

woohoo more bfps coming up xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

I hope so!! I know you're only meant to look at 3 cards, but the last 2 times I did my angel cards, the Child card was the 4th card...I guess I have to work on the things that came up in my cards and FX the child will shortly follow

 

[lilesMom]

i pick as many cards as i want hon, it doesnt mean its comin later, it means its coming soon xxxxxxxxxxx sometimes i only do one but often i could pull 6 or 7 cards, i just go with how many i feel is right xxxxxxxxxxx
very good sign xxxxxxxxxxxxx
i got it loads for a while before bfp xxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

that and wedding which u got last time xxxx
and the 'perfect timing' card i got that a lot and i thought it meant i had to wait but it didnt , it meant now was perfect time xxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

REALLY?! Haha omg I am so excited now I didn't know you could pick more... It was weird because I just had the feeling that I should look at the 4th card even though I thought I wasn't supposed to

What time is your scan on Thursday Lilesmom? xx

 

[lilesMom]

12.40 hon but its booking app so it can take 3 hrs !!! and i live an hr away and have a funeral to go to after so dont assume its bad news if no news til tomor nt xxxxxxx
thanks hon xxxxx

 

[babybemine]

Does anyone do anything in hopes that they are pregnant?
Like buying babyclothes, or talking as if they are pregnant.
Positive thoughts turning into reality....what you put out in the world is what you get?

 

[Smiler82]

Oh lilesmom sorry to hear about the funeral Will be thinking of you tomorrow xxx

Babybemine I won't buy stuff as it feels a bit unlucky for me, but I know some ppl do so if it would make you happy then there's no harm I just get funny about it as we were given some bits when I was preg but then we lost the babies

I think talking positively is def a good thing to do, recently we've been talking more positively and I really think it's helping plus the medidation helps me to picture it and I find it comforting

 

[babybemine]

Oh lilesmom sorry to hear about the funeral Will be thinking of you tomorrow xxx

Babybemine I won't buy stuff as it feels a bit unlucky for me, but I know some ppl do so if it would make you happy then there's no harm I just get funny about it as we were given some bits when I was preg but then we lost the babies

I think talking positively is def a good thing to do, recently we've been talking more positively and I really think it's helping plus the medidation helps me to picture it and I find it comforting

What do you do with the meditation? I am open to trying anything.

 

[Smiler82]

I bought a CD and also downloaded a track from iTunes. The CD was just from a little shop near me, but the iTunes track is Visualizing Pregnancy by Kathy Freston. I put both of them on my iPod and I just find some quiet time (usually when I go to bed) and sit there and listen. Sometimes I fall asleep during them though! So I need to start doing them in the day I think.

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys i just came on to tell ye all is well thank god, had my scan today and bub has grown like mad and things r fine. they put my dates exact same as mine to the day
il catch up tomor , im just too wrecked to now xxxxxxxxx
love to all xxxxxx

smiler if u fall asleep its ok, ur subconcious stil takes it in apparently xxx

 

[Smiler82]

Yay that's brilliant news so pleased for you, you must be so relieved xxx

Ah cool I wondered if it might sink in thanks xx

 

[lilesMom]

hope ye r all good chicks xxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Feeling cheery today It's the weeekkkeeenndd!

How are you lilesmom? You must be walking on air after your good news at the scan. Do you think you'll find out the gender later on or keep it as a surprise? What is your due date again??

 

[lilesMom]

yeah im very happy hon, i can relax now a lot
im so sleepy , i had a massage this morn and im just really sleepy, it was lovely.
i didnt realise just how wound up i was for the last few weeks
il def find out gender
june 2nd is my due date , woo hoo
any plans for ur weekend?