*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[lilesMom]

im staying positive these days just by being normal and being myself again im not dwelling , im lookin on the good points , no bad allowed
b2b hope u feel better soon chick xxxx
smiler there is no time frame yet, i work for government so they have announced they r gonna do it with no other d details , it could be ages yet but at least i have it to look forward to

 

[Bump2Baby]

I saw Magic Mike today then stopped with the girls at costa followed by ann summers - great day and very positive lol

 

[lilesMom]

sounds fun

 

[Hopeful335]

Hello everyone.

Lots of positivity going on here! I've been trying to read and catch up. Had lots if problems with my phone and not really been bringing my computer home so got out of the loop. Is everyone okay-well I've read all the posts so I know its not an easy answer.

Smiler and eternity-hello!

Let's get lots of PMA going I keep seeing 2 magpies which I'm taking as a positive sign as around the mmc time I saw tons on their own and following the rhyme...anyway af also due acc ff and yey I started spotting last night!!! I also break up for six week school hols today-only need to be in wk a few days then 3 week hol next Sat so I'm feeling very positive.

You ladies really got me through a dark few weeks so THANK YOU!!!!

How is everyone today???

X x

 

[lilesMom]

3 week hol, lovely. no thank u , we r all in this together xxxxxxxxxxx
my second af nearly due and i am gettin some signs, would be good if it came on time to know im nearly normal

 

[Bump2Baby]

I have no AF still but instead of a party for my 30th birthday in oct my wonderful man has booked a week in Paris with 5 days at Disneyland!
It's 12 weeks away so let's hope I'm taking a little blob on its first visit.
We went last year for my birthday and the girls loved it so I'm thrilled!

 

[lilesMom]

thats really cool. i love euro disney and ive no kids yet
all my family, about 50 of us goin for lunch today and goin to a wild life park after, nice day

 

[jen435]

thats really cool. i love euro disney and ive no kids yet
all my family, about 50 of us goin for lunch today and goin to a wild life park after, nice day

Sounds like a great day lilysmom! Enjoy!

 

[lilesMom]

it was lovely, im wrecked from playing with my nieces and nephews, they r great

 

[Smiler82]

Hey everyone

sorry have been offline for a few days. Been really nice to have a weekend away and isn't it lovely to have some proper sunshine!!

Hello hopeful! I do that with the magpies too haha. I take it all with a pinch of salt, kind of. If I see one I think, that doesn't mean anything, but if I see 3 or 4 I'm like, ooh I'm going to have a boy/girl soon! Silly Where are you going on holiday?

b2b that is so cool about Paris You will have a fab time! I just turned 30 too and we went on holiday, was so good

lilesmom how are you feeling, is AF def on the way? Glad you had a great time with your family

 

[lilesMom]

hi smiler no af, pains went away again. only lasted a day
i worked it out anyway and if cycle is normal i should get it end of this week
so its not late yet
def nice to have a break. u deserve it x

 

[lilesMom]

OH is home in less than 6 days woohoo
(no ttc yet but hope soon )

we can practise BD instead ha ha

 

[Smiler82]

Woop woop! You must be so excited lilesmom How long will he have been away all together then? Oh that's good you're not late yet then, I hope everything turns out to be back to normal

 

[lilesMom]

5 and a half weeks, its d longest we have been apart in 10 yrs
im looking forward to him coming home defo.
im very choppy changy, im not terribly bothered if its a little late now cos i know we cant try for a bit anyway, i never used to be this changeable
i know it could possibly be late so i dont wanna be dissappointed
how u doin? any news xx

 

[Smiler82]

Argh, 5.5 weeks is ages! I would hate to be apart from my DH that long. Are you going to do anything special the day he gets back, like go for dinner or something?

Know what you mean about feeling so changeable! I think it's bound to happen considering everything you have gone through Good to not get your hopes up about things returning to normal and ending up disappointed.

No news from me yet...doc is calling me on Thurs morning (I couldn't get a face to face appointment they are so ridiculously busy!) and I am going to tell her I'm ready to start clomid. I have a letter from the hospital saying it is ok for me to start whenever I want, so I just need her to write the prescription. However, I have no idea when my next AF will be so I don't know how long it'll be til we are properly back in the game. I was wanting us to try this cycle for one last shot at a natural conception, but I'm on CD27 already with no sign of ovulation and I'm worried about getting pregnant with an 'old' egg if you see what I mean. My last two were conceived on CD 34 and CD36 so I think I want to wait til I start clomid and hopefully will ov at a more normal time and we will catch a young, healthy egg

 

[lilesMom]

ur mind would prob be more at ease anyway if u wait till on clomid, its so hard to know though isnt it, we dont wanna miss any chance we can .
best o luck xxx fx crossed for u hon.
i rang my doc to ask her to retest liver and she said she would but then said (with a little laugh) oh ur boyf is back soon isnt he and u want to try, dont expect much change in them , i had to say bye and hang up cos i was startin to cry on the phone, does she not bloody realise this is very important to me , bitch.
im starting to laugh at what ive written, god i think i over reacted a bit, af will prob be here v soon, i feel so hormonal , im all over the shop
my doc retired and she is a new doc in the office, my old doc was my doc since before i was born, man i miss him, he wouldnt laugh at me for being desparate to ttc

 

[lilesMom]

i forgot to answer ur question with my rant, we wont do much day he comes back except lots o cuddles, he will have been travelling for like nearly 24 hrs so id say he be wrecked. im off 3 days when he comes home we can do stuff then, i dont care what we do bar cuddles, i could do with major hugs right now im a moany minnie and i dont like it it needs to be cuddled out o me

 

[Bump2Baby]

I couldn't go without my man 5.5 weeks lilies mum your a champ lol

AF arrived yesterday so while I'm flooding and it lots of pain i am excited cycle 5 has arrived and we can continue our journey

Soy starts again tomorrow!

So can you girls all do me a favour and by way of support practice BD for me while i am too???? lol

 

[lilesMom]

no problemo, but only to support u hee hee

 

[Bump2Baby]

I know, the things i ask you to do!! lol