*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[lilesMom]

Wow all online at the same time! I didn't know you guys were posting same time as me

Thanks ladies it really helps to talk xxx

Lilesmom I seem to remember you had a dream a little while ago about there being blood, and it never happened. Dreams are just random and/or made up of things that are in our minds, whether conscious or subconcious. They are so unnerving but really don't mean anyhting xxx

i think i dreamt it more both times cos i was worried,
las time with lile i was irght to worry,
but this time i think im just being a ninny ha ha xxxxxxxxx
ive eben having lots of freaky dreams anyway, some that cannot possibly come true
thanks xxxxx
im gonna have to go soon, i must go for my swim today i only went once last week and had no walk last 2 days, bold girl

 

[lilesMom]

maybe my bub is lazy cos i havent got my exercise last 2 days, um.......
off to d pool me thinks for me

hugs smiler, il be back on later
chat soon amy xxxxx

i feel bad leaving when ye r actually here xxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Aw no don't worry lilesmom I logged off myself as DH came home. I didn't want to burden him with any of my crazy worries as he's been up since 5 and had a hard day, but bless him he knows when something is up and he let me have a cry and gave me a hug and I feel better. Also the first thing he said when he walked in the door was "ooh, your bump's bigger today!" which was just the best thing he could've said. After I told him I was worried he took a photo so I could compare this week's bump to last week's and it is bigger. So just trying to focus on the positives ie feeling healthy, bump growing....breeeaatthe and stay calm!

Hope you have a good swim! Exercise is great for babies as they benefit from the increased oxygen in your blood so maybe that is just what he needs I must really make the effort to get out but the snow just makes me want to stay inside, I hate the cold xxx

 

[lilesMom]

hurray for hugs and growing bump
just waht u need when down , Oh is used to me coming upt o him by now asking for hugs i dont even need to talk half the time just to get a nice cuddle feels better
swim was lovely, bub has gone back to being quiet again, he is a fairy.
im gonna wait till tmor i think and if he still quiet il go get checked. he prob make up for it when im tryint o sleep tonight

 

[lilesMom]

ps he always goes quiet when i go swimming anyway so it prob lulls him to sleep or something

 

[Smiler82]

Ah yeah I think I've been told when you move, it rocks them to sleep then when you stop they start moving around. So in the nicest way possible I hope you don't get much sleep tonight Agree it's best to just give someone a quick ring though; am sure they're very used to these kinds of questions but always best to err on the side of caution xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i think he might just be backwards he is moving now but its really gentle .
so maybe he is facing my back i think. thanks hon.
i know i sound neurotic but u hear of people ignoring reduced movement and having bad things happen, thanks
how u feeling now chick? better i hope xxx

 

[Smiler82]

No you don't sound neurotic at all. I think if you have any worries it is always best to speak to someone. I know sometimes people feel like they don't want to 'bother' their docs and midwives but there is just no point risking it. I just had a little look around online and coincidentally there are ladies saying once they got to about 28 weeks they noticed their baby's pattern of movement changed, and everyone was saying because of them starting to get tight on space! So maybe that is it xxx

I'm feeling better ta. A little drained if you know what I mean. But I decided it is ok to have a down day and not to fret about it. We have Ben & Jerry's in the freezer so that will help I don't know if I felt some movement or not though - could just be wishful thinking after my little panic earlier. I sneezed and immediately after I felt something like lots of little bubbles popping in my lower abdomen. It only lasted a few seconds and I've not felt anything since, so could be a muscle spasm! xxx

 

[mommylov]

You are right! You are very much entitled to have a down down hun!

 

[lilesMom]

smiler sounds like early movement to me hon wayhay xxxxx
ben and jerrys phish food? its my fave i cant buy it much cos i would actually make myself sick by eatin too much, its yummy
yeah i think we will all have our worry days , hormones dont help either, some days i know i feel extra worried cos of um, xxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

smiler a sneeze would def get a response from bub too, so more than likely was bub xx

 

[mommylov]

Aww Laura, hearing you talk about bub moving makes my heart melt. It sounds just so soweet

 

[lilesMom]

u have made me really want ben and jerrys phish food smiler ,
think i may even have to go purchase il try and ignore it cos i dont wanna drive to town

hi babybemine, how u doin hon?

 

[lilesMom]

Aww Laura, hearing you talk about bub moving makes my heart melt. It sounds just so soweet

thanks chick, u will have it too before u know it,
i know its a cliche but time really does fly when preg xxxx
in a few months il be jealous of u, cos il be missing feeling kicks and u will be in the middle of it all xxxxxxxxx
just had a couple of good ones thank god , i went on my treadmil and now im off, kicks again , thank god
i wil be able to sleep tonight now

 

[mommylov]

Yay!!!! Good job LO... kick mommy so that she can sleep

 

[lilesMom]

i know what am i like, practically beggin my tummy to get him to kick me

 

[babybemine]

Been busy getting house ready to move into. Fixing up the place now and then have to pack up everything to move it all.
2nd month of Femara and have two follies this time...18.5 on left and 20 on right. They were so big that I thought they were my ovaries...oops. 2dpo today and had cramping yesterday. I got the new house, now I am just waiting for the babies to put in the rooms.

 

[Smiler82]

Aww so glad you got some good strong kicks lilesmom Haha yes it was phish food, that is also our favourite! We never buy it full price, only when it's on offer and even then only one tub as it is so naughty But oh so nice!

Thanks lilesmom I really hope it was some movement! I've been wanting to sneeze again ever since to see if it happens again but no luck so far

babybemine congrats on the new house. They do say new house new baby x

 

[mommylov]

Morning girls!

 

[Smiler82]

Morning!! (although is afternoon here lol)

Liking your chart mommylov But you know I wonder if you ovulated on CD15 rather than CD17...which would still be awesome in terms of DTD (would match our pattern for conceiving this time round!). Just wondering why FF's given you dotted lines now. Plus your really high progesterone results...dunno What do you think? Either way it's a great chart tho!