*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[Smiler82]

No hb,

Oh my god, what... sorry we posted at the same time... you just had a scan?
I am so so so sorry sweetie this is awful news xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

smiler glad all is well xxxxxxxxx hugs xxxxxxxxxxx

amy im so sorry sweetie x hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

No hb yesterday. Opted not to have another d&c. Third loss so being sent to a specialist.

Seeing as how I been depleted if what little pma I had, I will be taking a break from this thread. Anyone is welcome to join my on my journal as I will still be active there. Thank you girls for all of your love and support. Hope to be back soon.

 

[Smiler82]

Totally understand hun. Am so very sorry xxxxxxx

 

[withlovemom]

No hb yesterday. Opted not to have another d&c. Third loss so being sent to a specialist.

Seeing as how I been depleted if what little pma I had, I will be taking a break from this thread. Anyone is welcome to join my on my journal as I will still be active there. Thank you girls for all of your love and support. Hope to be back soon.

Oh hon.. I m so sorry for ur loss dear..
totally understand abt u wanting to take a break...
hugs to u hon...take care....

 

[lilesMom]

totally understand amy hugs xxxxxxxx
il be on ur journal xxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls.... trying to get back into posting in the forums I was in now that Ive had a moment to get it together. Things are still raw but I feel like Im on the mend and moving on. Hope you all are doing well!

 

[lilesMom]

welcome back hon, love u lots xxxxxx

hi and hugs to all xxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Aww nice to see you both back on here, hope you're both ok xxx

 

[lilesMom]

hi smiler xxxx
im good hon, gettin a bit more normal kind of,
lack of sleep but all good,
simon is doign great so thats the main thing
how r u doin hon? xxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Awww I'm so pleased to hear that lilesmom Are you fully recovered from the birth? How much sleep are you getting???

Things are ok with me ta, also not getting a lot of sleep but I just can't get comfortable. Been doing hypnobirthing and that usually helps me to drop off though xx

 

[lilesMom]

stitches mainly popped out day before yest so now just a bit achy and itchy
i didnt have ur run of the mill birth
so not fully recovered but dont let it put u off
even though it was long ( 2 days ) i would do it a milion time over if i had to for my little milky face
im much better than i was but still a bit shook but thats to be expected
simon is a great little guy though who loves his sleep which is fab
yeah hypno cds were great for sleeping for me too, i also find they calmed me down soo much , i didnt fear the birth cos of um which was great.
once u start labour u get kind of glad cos u knwo its started now and when its over i get my bub and its done xxx

 

[Hopeful335]

Hello. Just thought I'd pop in and say hi. I have been keeping up with everyone. Lilesmom huge CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! What day exact was Simon's birth day?Really sorry to read your labour was traumatic and Simon had a stroke. How is he now?

Smiler I'm glad all seems okay with you 31 weeks. I remember that well-bug enough you feel pregnant and feeling lots of kicks but not so big you are uncomfortable!!! Enjoy!!!! I also worried leads finally as at that point if bubs came there's like a 95-98% chance they'd live!!

Mommylov I'm so so so sorry for your loss. Words can't express how sad I am for you. I know that won't help but hopefully knowing other ppl on here and chatting with those in a very similar circumstance will. Then hearing success stories may help eventually - not now but in time. I'm really sorry.

Withlovemum good luck I hope all is going well? Lovely news and do exciting. I really hope you can enjoy it a bit more this time.

Babybemine I'm sorry about your news I can't imagine how your beginning to feeling. Just try to keep positive abd keep talking to ppl on here and ppl who know what youre going through x x

AFM- just thought i'd let you know I gave birth to a baby girl I've called Erin Grace. She was a healthy 7lb10oz. My birth was fine or as fine as a natural birth can be. Very painful!!!!! But totally worth it!! We had a few pribs after as Erin developed quite bad jaundice and we had to stay in for 5 days while she was 'under the lights' - like a sunbed. It worked but meant as she also had a tongue tie we couldn't persever with breast feeding as she's needed to be fed quick and back under lights. anyway we've had tongue tie done abd are trying to retrain Erin to bf-v hard more like I imagined first two weeks but getting there.

Anyway big hugs to all x x x x x x x

 

[withlovemom]

Hey Hopefull...

HEARTIEST CONGRATULATIONS to u hon

What a lovely name..Erin Grace

Hope u r feeling better after the painfull labour n hope little Erin is also recovering from the jaundice.. I will keep u both in my prayers

Lilesmom..How r u n Simon doin?? Send us a picture if u can of ur little one

Smiler..hope u r doin fine dear..getting close step by step huh?? 31 weeks,, fx for u hon..

Babybemine n mommylove.. how r u two darlings.. thinking abt u both n sending baby dust ur way...

AFM, pretty much regular.. tied up with work..but when i get back home n lie down after a nice shower, i hold my tummy n hope to feel some movements.. my OB/GYN said that it will be a little more time till i feel it as i am only 15weeks 3 days...but i am so eager to feel the baby move.... I keep getting little pains sometimes on on the left n lower side of my belly button..n once or twice i got strong painful sensetion around my pelvic area.. Could any of these be baby movements?? It is not like what everybody says..not flutters or popcorn popping of butterflies like a feeling.... I want to feel d little one move.. i guess i will just have to wait n be patient....

neways..hugs n prayers to all..

 

[mommylov]

Hi Ladies!

Congrats hopeful on your baby girl! What a beautiful name too! I hope that the BFing gets to be a bit easier for you and your LO.

Withlov, I hope you get to feel your LO move soon hun!

Laura, so glad that you and Simon (your lil mily face heheh) are doign well. Im sure youjust cant get enough of him

Smiler, hope you and your bub are doing well! How are you feeling?

Babybemine, how are you holding up?

:wave: to everyone and anyone Ive missed. Hope everyone is well.

AFM~ Had a great appt with our new RE. I was nervous abou tnow havign to go to an RE but he and his team seem very knowledgeable and gave DH the boost of confidence that we needed right now. We are going to stay the course and do all that we can to have a healthy LO. They ran a BUNCH of bloodtests on me which I hope to get the results by the end of the week. Hope that we get some answers from that. Also, sent our fetus off for testing on Monday hoping that we get answers from that too but that wont be for 10-14 from when we dropped it off Praying that we get soem good news with all this testing and that we have our rainbow baby soon!

 

[lilesMom]

i had a big reply typed and comp froze and lost it on me, now typiung one handed cos pumping, xx

hopeful congrats xxxx beautifull name, xxx
glad she is good now and home, so tough when something is wrong. xxx
simon was born on 28/05 he is a little sweetie, he is super good .
im lucky .
birth was well worth it
we had a tough 2 weeks, he hadstroke and broken shoulder, i had infection and high blood pressure, but was well worth it, he is doing great so far thank god xx thanks
fingers crossed for u with bf, im gone back to expressing due to bf problems, when they dont bf from first day it gets harder tp estabish then xx
im postin this and readin on so as not tp lose it again x

 

[lilesMom]

withlovemom we r good thanks xx
i think if u think it is bub then it is bub, xx
i think mom knows best xx
mine didnt ever really feel like butterflies, more like bubbles in the start and got stronger xx
will put up pic soon, xx my phone is awkward to do it or else im awkward, ha ha

amy im soo glad u ha d a good appoinmtnt, good news is all we want for u from now on xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i lit a candle just forr u yest at local grotto xxxxxx

hi and hugs to all xxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Awww thank you Laura!!!!!! m hoping that we have our miracle soon... I need to have a play mate for Simon for when we decide to make it out to Ireland!

 

[lilesMom]

Awww thank you Laura!!!!!! m hoping that we have our miracle soon... I need to have a play mate for Simon for when we decide to make it out to Ireland!

sounds great xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[babybemine]

Had lab today and waiting for results to see if HCG is finally dropped to 0. FX. Then I still have a chance this cycle to get my on.
With all this that happened we decided to let our parents know that we were dealing with fertility issue and that we are seeing a RE. We were afraid that it could be ectopic and we didn't want to have to explain it to them in an emergency. Both parents have been supportive.