*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[lilesMom]

yeah i am, feel like im moving forward anyway cos least im gettin my mot
yeah i been getting pain for yrs from poss fibroids but its usually very seldom , like every 3 months r so and before i i could take pain killers so was not too bad, now with liver i cant take pain killers so it kills me, its gotten way more frequent and i have pressure on my bladdar too, sorry tmi so its better to check it in case it causes me ttc and sticky bean problems
sinus guy reckons he has no idea why i have bleeding form my sinuses, it happens when i am around chemicals, i have learned to stay away from them as much as poss and im not too bad then. but its fairly hard to avoid completly , cos they r everywhere,
avoiding them could save me from getting cancer r something later so there is a bright side there too he has done loads o tests and cant find where it comes from. but as i thought myself its been 6 yrs so if it was gonna kill me i be gone he said d same today
fibroids dont have to mean too bad news either , they only cause baby problems when positioned badly thanks girls

 

[Bump2Baby]

See more positive already xxx

 

[Smiler82]

Aww lilesmom. Sounds like you have had your fill of medical problems! Glad you are able to see the bright side of it though xx

 

[Bump2Baby]

I'm 9DPO and got a positive this morning til I realised I used an OPK by mistake, preg test still negative lol

 

[Miss cat]

I'm 9DPO and got a positive this morning til I realised I used an OPK by mistake, preg test still negative lol

I really hate it when that happens! Remember your not out yet.

 

[lilesMom]

doh b2b , fx u get it for real soon

 

[Hopeful335]

Hey b2b you'll be 10dpo today won't you?? I am too-think we're the same. I've done 2 hpt and both are negative so far-was hopeful but not implantation dip like last time so think I'm out! Bummer! How are you feeling about it all?? x x

 

[Smiler82]

Oh what a disappointment!! Still a few days to go yet though ladies, 10 dpo is still very early. FX!!

I hope I have ovulated now...CD48, what a joke! Trying not to get too excited incase my temp crashes again over the weekend, but hopefully we're on the home straight now and can ttc next cycle

 

[Bump2Baby]

10DPO first response is negative.

Implantation dip at 4DPO so who knows

 

[Smiler82]

I always get a dip around 4 dpo. You can get dips that early from a secondary estrogen surge, seems to happen every cycle for me. 4dpo would be very, very early for implantation, they say implantation usually happens around 7-10 dpo so you could just be too early with your test

 

[lilesMom]

fx for ye all xxx
turns out i have a kidney infection, it didnt show up in pee but showed up in blood. so hope this was hte pain and not my fibroids growing xx

 

[Miss cat]

fx for ye all xxx
turns out i have a kidney infection, it didnt show up in pee but showed up in blood. so hope this was hte pain and not my fibroids growing xx

That's unfortunate, sorry to hear that. I hope the pain isn't too bad. x

 

[lilesMom]

its alright now hon, bit better im just glad its something antibiotics will fix and hope it means my fibroids havent grown thanks xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[withlovemom]

oh lilesmom..hope u r not in too much pain..take care of urself hon....

 

[lilesMom]

thanks girls startin to feel better already xxx how ye all x

 

[Miss cat]

Lilesmom: glad your feeling bit better.

I feel a bit sad and want to cry at every moment. I guess that's a sign that AF is coming. Im never like this though. Checked my cervix too ( sorry tmi) and it's low, hard and slightly open but still don't know what that means!
Trying to conceive is really getting me down, maybe I'm sad cos my AF is due next
week.

 

[lilesMom]

oh miss cat, sorry ur so sad, hope u feel better soon. i def feel it gets on top of me a bit more when af is due, its hormonal as well as the feeling we shouldnt be getting af cos we should be pregnant, big hugs chick xxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

im not sure what ur cervix mean either i never check mine, hope someone can answer u, r maybe google it ad see what it comes up with xxx

 

[Smiler82]

Aw big miss cat. Sorry you are feeling down. I'm really sorry I can't remember your story, how long have you guys been trying?

Re cervix FF says not to rely on it as a pregnancy sign during the 2WW. It will apparently always move into a non-fertile position (ie low and hard) after ovulation and it can take longer than the 2WW for it to move up if you have conceived. The only time I pay attention to low, hard and open cervix is if it's the day before, or the day AF is due, just so I don't get my hopes up too high. HTH x

 

[Miss cat]

oh miss cat, sorry ur so sad, hope u feel better soon. i def feel it gets on top of me a bit more when af is due, its hormonal as well as the feeling we shouldnt be getting af cos we should be pregnant, big hugs chick xxxxxxxxx

Thanks lilesmom, it's reassuring that youre the same when AF is due. Feeling much better today. I guess I've had less time to think about stuff while I'm at work. It must be the hormonal because I never get like this and alcohol or tea usually helps but I've given up both. X