*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[Smiler82]

Smiler, no we aren't telling anyone yet but no doubt people will guess when they see me with a great big smile on my face. I hope you get your bfp with SMEP too. Keep me posted because I'd love to hear!

Aww you must be beaming from ear to ear When we get our bfp we will be waiting til gone 12 weeks before telling anyone, but it's good to be able to share anonymously on here

 

[Hopeful335]

Hey ladies. God sorry I've been absent for so long. On hol for almost 3 weeks, then got back and we were moving 4 days later! Only arranged while on hol. Very exciting!!! Now in our new house, been unpacking etc!!!!

Congratulations Miss Cat,super news!

For those of you on PMA thread and know my story just wanted to tell you it works. Got our 2nd bfp. Fingers crossed it all goes okay this time. I'm gonna have lots of PMA!!!!!!just wanted to let you ladies know as you truly did get me through June/July this year! It was tough and reading your stories and your positivity, really helped so rhank you ladies! I shall be keeping reading and waiting for all your BFPs-so excited for you! Good luck and keep the PMA it works (took me over a yr for my first BFP) now 2 in a few months) x x

 

[Smiler82]

Oh wow MORE congratulations!! This thread is doing really well Hopeful that is great news, hope you are feeling okay xx Keep chatting if you feel nervous at any point xx

 

[Miss cat]

Hey ladies. God sorry I've been absent for so long. On hol for almost 3 weeks, then got back and we were moving 4 days later! Only arranged while on hol. Very exciting!!! Now in our new house, been unpacking etc!!!!

Congratulations Miss Cat,super news!

For those of you on PMA thread and know my story just wanted to tell you it works. Got our 2nd bfp. Fingers crossed it all goes okay this time. I'm gonna have lots of PMA!!!!!!just wanted to let you ladies know as you truly did get me through June/July this year! It was tough and reading your stories and your positivity, really helped so rhank you ladies! I shall be keeping reading and waiting for all your BFPs-so excited for you! Good luck and keep the PMA it works (took me over a yr for my first BFP) now 2 in a few months) x x

That's amazing news, congrats x

 

[lilesMom]

hopefull that is so great , congrats. fx for happy and healthy 9 months xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i was only thinking of u yest, thinkin i hadnt seen u on in ages . that is really great, it is so lovely to have so much good news, u too miss cat. we have enough bad news and lovely to have proof pma works xxxxxxxxxxxx congrats again xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi Ladies, Im new to this forum and was kind of reffered by a friend in here This is the second forum I have ever posted in and just love the ladies in the first one I joined . Reading some of the posts here and you girls have such a great positive energy!!! A little about me, I got a 6/9/12 and went in for an us at 6 weeks. Baby's heart and everything looked great. I was feeling fine and went in for another us at 10 and was told the baby died at 8wks Had a D&C 2 days later and just recently started ttc again (yesterday lol ). Ive been trying to stay pos throughout this whole thing and hoping that we get our soon and have a healthy lo. Congrats to all of you that are expecting in here and to those that are trying!

 

[lilesMom]

hi mommylov xx

 

[mommylov]

hi mommylov xx

Hi Lilesmom!

 

[Smiler82]

Aww big mommyluv. I'm so sorry for your loss. Went through a similar experience with our first miscarriage my heart goes out to you It is a hard time so don't beat yourself up if you can't stay positive 24/7.

I can't decide how positive to be right now!! Sounds silly...hopefully AF will be here tomorrow and then I can start clomid. Am really hoping it works 1st time and that this time next month I will be preggers. But at the same time I don't want to get my hopes up too much otherwise I'll be really disappointed!!

How is everyone else doing? Lilesmom have you got any more tests or anything coming up soon? x

 

[lilesMom]

hi smiler, fx for clomid, im sure it wil do the trick hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i know its hard to keep a balance, we need to be +ve but dont wanna dash our hopes all d time, we will get sticky bfp soon chick xx
im waiting on a blood test back , should be back next week and hope it can tell us more. then its liver u/s and u/s to check fibroids and then liver consultant end of sep so hopefully soon thanks honey xx

 

[lilesMom]

b2b how u doin missy? x

 

[Smiler82]

hi smiler, fx for clomid, im sure it wil do the trick hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
i know its hard to keep a balance, we need to be +ve but dont wanna dash our hopes all d time, we will get sticky bfp soon chick xx
im waiting on a blood test back , should be back next week and hope it can tell us more. then its liver u/s and u/s to check fibroids and then liver consultant end of sep so hopefully soon thanks honey xx

Yeah, I hope we all get our little miracles very soon. I have gotten a bit addicted to programmes like One Born Every Minute and The Midwives. I couldn't stand to watch them before, they made me too sad and jealous. But now I just can't stop watching them and trying to imagine one day me being on a labour ward!!

I hope you get a good result for your blood test next week hun, fx for you. End of Sept isn't that far away really, as long as you can keep yourself busy in the meantime x

 

[lilesMom]

ive waited this long i can wait another month easy peasy
im backwards to u , i had no prob with pregnant women and babies, im startin to get jealous sometimes now, but i know its only natural x

 

[Smiler82]

Aww yeah of course it is We all feel like that at times, it's ok to be that way x

 

[Hopeful335]

Hi ladies,

I know this is a PMA thread but needed to talk and let you know. After only a week of gettin my bfp, I'm pretty sure I miscarried last night. Started spotting yest, rang epu booked for scan on Mon but pretty sure it happened. managed to collect what I passed, barely any blood!!! (sorry tmi)

At least this time I didn't get to 12 weeks thinking all was ok-only managed 5 and 1/2! Not good though and not got much PMA right now! Gonna need you to boost me and tell me some good news/thoughts. Anyone got any? What are odds of successful preg after 2 successive miscarriages and no children? X

 

[Miss cat]

Hi ladies,

I know this is a PMA thread but needed to talk and let you know. After only a week of gettin my bfp, I'm pretty sure I miscarried last night. Started spotting yest, rang epu booked for scan on Mon but pretty sure it happened. managed to collect what I passed, barely any blood!!! (sorry tmi)

At least this time I didn't get to 12 weeks thinking all was ok-only managed 5 and 1/2! Not good though and not got much PMA right now! Gonna need you to boost me and tell me some good news/thoughts. Anyone got any? What are odds of successful preg after 2 successive miscarriages and no children? X

I'm so sorry to hear that Hopeful. Maybe its not a miscarriage. PMA! I've read plenty of women experience spotting during pregnancy. I hope your partner is giving you loads of hugs and if not... Here you go

 

[lilesMom]

oh hopefull u poor thing, hope it wasnt , xxxx how awfull, my heart goes out to u hon xxxx the odds r very good, i read up on all of it when i mc. with 1 mc u have no extra odds and with 2 u have 10% extra odds. when u think of it 10% isnt much at all, it is so close to normal odds..

i am so so sorry babe. take care of urself, loads o rest and f**k pma for now, u r entitled to give out all u want, big hugs , if u wann PM me feel free, xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hopeful how u holdin up babe big hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Smiler82]

Hi ladies,

I know this is a PMA thread but needed to talk and let you know. After only a week of gettin my bfp, I'm pretty sure I miscarried last night. Started spotting yest, rang epu booked for scan on Mon but pretty sure it happened. managed to collect what I passed, barely any blood!!! (sorry tmi)

At least this time I didn't get to 12 weeks thinking all was ok-only managed 5 and 1/2! Not good though and not got much PMA right now! Gonna need you to boost me and tell me some good news/thoughts. Anyone got any? What are odds of successful preg after 2 successive miscarriages and no children? X

I am so, so sorry to hear this, Hopeful. Have you been for your scan yet? I hope you hear some miraculous news - if there wasn't much blood then I am hoping so badly for you it was some random bleeding that was not a miscarriage.

If it was then it's totally ok to not be feeling the PMA right now and we're here to help you through. You can still have a successful pregnancy after 2 losses but speaking from my own experience it can take a while for you to really believe it. I got so sick of ppl telling me stories of people they knew who had had 6, 7 or 8 miscarriages and now had children. At the time I didn't feel like those stories helped me but if they help you then there you are, there is hope. I don't know exact stats but I do know that doctors have no reason to believe you can't have a successful pregnancy.

Take care hun, keep chatting if you need to xx

 

[lilesMom]

how u holdin up hopeful?
how r the other girls ? x