Pregnant AGAIN!!! How do I tell my parents... Please no judging...

[kajastarlight]

I think any parent single or not can make a great environment for their kids to grow up in. Like because my kids saw me struggle with life a bit but always just "keep on keeping on" they know that life is not always easy but your determination and unconditional and uncontrollable love for family will get you through it. And I always always make the time to just be goofy with them no matter what stage of life. One house rule is literally "only Mom can start a gravy fight!" Haha yes! Every once and a while I just fling some cooled down leftover gravy at a boy and its on! 30 min of gut busting laughter and fun followed by 10 min of laughter and family clean up and a lifetime memory to cherish for .30 cents. Ok maybe $1. Stuff like that to keep a happy home until your schooling is done and career established enough to do actual expensive family outings. )

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Awe haha!! You sound like a great mom! Maybe illbe able to do it. I don't want the odds stacked against them the second they are born :/ I really feel terrible for putting them in this position. They are not loved because I've kept them. You make some good points though. All we need is each other for the time being. I just know school is going to be so hard

 

[Linzi_x]

I would tell them as soon as you can. It'll make you feel worse having it on your shoulders for that long. You have a while to think about the path you're going to take. I hope things go okay

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Tanks! I do too!! I'm so nervous. I have my ultrasound in 3 days!!! It still seems so unreal. I don't even feel or look pregnant at all! Maybe this will kick me into reality haha!

 

[hunni12]

It's not impossible, my raised 4 kids alone. She worked 10 hours a day/7 days a week to ensure we had what we needed. Sure she had to make sacrifices but when it comes down to your children you will make any sacrifice necessary.

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Yeah that's true! I just don't want putting my kids through unnecessary struggles. Your mom may have done well but I'm not sure how I'll do. I'll try my best either way. It'll be hard no matter what direction I take. Just have to decide which will be harder; the monetary struggles or the emotional struggles of losing your child.

 

[chasingbfp]

AW COLORMEFAMOUS is that you and your daughter in your pic? She looks so cute! Does she even have blue eyes? I bet your newest addition will be just as gorgeous, I'm so jealous! I've always wanted a colored eyed child with lighter hair and thought it was impossible given my looks (dark brown hair and hazel eyes), you give me hope!

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Haha yes that's my girl!! Everyone is always like is that your kid?! It is haha! You can tell in out facial features/body structures/double jointed fingers/etc haha! She just didn't get my colours! Haha! When she popped out I was just shocked! When her head started to show they had told me she had light hair but I was thinking light brown, not white lol. Seriously could've mistaken her for a little albino other than the eyes haha! She's gotten a nice golden touch but I think that's the best she's getting haha! I have heterozygous genes (B=brown eyes b=blue eyes, and H=brown hair h=blonde hair) so I have the genes Bb and Hh. The only way a child can have blue eyes and blonde hair is if each parent carries those genes! Even though it didn't show in mine (because my dad was BB and HH) I still carried it from my mom (whp was bb and hh). The father is bb and hh so when we produced Chanel (BbHh x bbhh) she took my b and h genes and was left with his b and h genes! That's how that happened hah! Sorry if I lost you but it explains whether you can have a baby like that haha! I am hoping for this baby to look like my daughter because the father's genes are bbhh as well! Fingers crossed!

 

[kajastarlight]

Have you decided when to tell them yet? I must admit I have been curious.

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Well not directly. I told them I have an ultrasound and bloodwork. Technically nothing is confirmed so there's nothing to say as of yet. My symptoms have gone away so I'm sort of hoping haven't miscarried but I'll find out in two days!! I'll keep everyone posted!

 

[kajastarlight]

good luck with your scan )

 

[MrsBabyBump]

what did they say?..
and good luck girl!

 

[wannabemomy37]

Keep us posted!! Hope everything turns out ok!!

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Thanks!! Only a day and a bit until I get to see my little munchkin!!

Well I told them it was because of my weird period and my dr wants to see if there is anything in there and they haven't really reacted at all so I don't think they've totally caught on.

I shall!! I hope everything is too!

 

[DessyMarie]

AW COLORMEFAMOUS is that you and your daughter in your pic? She looks so cute! Does she even have blue eyes? I bet your newest addition will be just as gorgeous, I'm so jealous! I've always wanted a colored eyed child with lighter hair and thought it was impossible given my looks (dark brown hair and hazel eyes), you give me hope!

I have hazel eyes and dark brown hair, and my partner had dark brown hair and blue eyes... my daughter came out with bright blue eyes and sandy blonde hair.. I was surprised too

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Haha! Funny how genetics work hey??

 

[xforuiholdonx]

Good Luck at you scan!

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Thanks!! Less than 24 hours away now!

 

[Stevensmummyx]

How did your scan go? X

 

[little_lissy]

Hello Hun.

I'm sure it will be a big shock but they have supported you once and I'm sure they will again.

Please make any decisions for YOU- not anybody else. Adoption is a big decision and it will take a lot for you to give up a baby you have carried for nine months. If you go down that route please ensure you do it properly and safely so you don't get taken for a ride.

I think it's best to come out with it- if you keep it bottled up for too long your parents are bound to realise you have kept it a secret and will be upset about that also.

With regards to the father- I'm sure he is just in shock but if he doesn't come round then you don't need a coward like that in your life. You can do it without him.

Please feel to PM at anytime.