Pregnant AGAIN!!! How do I tell my parents... Please no judging...

[MrsBabyBump]

how was your scan girl?

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Heyy ladies!! The scan went great! I'll post pics!!

I finally told my mom!! She is supportive whether I adopt it out or abort it. (She wants me to abort it.) I am so stuck with what I should do! She says I should at least make a an abortion appointment just so the option is open. She said she won't kick me out or anything but this will be my deal to deal with, not our family's.

 

[x__amour]

Heads up chick, we don't talk about the "A" here on BnB.

While BabyandBump tries to remain pro-choice on most subjects, out of respect for majority of our members that are either trying to conceive, or pregnant, we ask that you do not discuss topics on abortion and terminations outside of the 'Ethical Prenatal Losses' forum.

 

[kajastarlight]

kinda makes me sad to hear about people thinking of a baby as a problem but I wish you and your family well and will Pray to the Good Lord to give you strenght to do whatever your heart tells you that you should do.

 

[MrsBabyBump]

i don't support your mom's opinion, she should think about if her mom had made the same decision she is trying to tell you to do.
or if your mom had chose to do that with you.
we all deserve a chance in life.
and we all know its a possibility to become pregnant when we engage in sex.
its not the childs fault, it didn't ask to be put there.
adoption is the only choice imo if you don't want to keep it.
but good luck to you in whatever you decide, keeping you in my prayers most definatley.

 

[ColorMeFamous]

Thanks. I'm not really discussing it. I am just stating what she said. As I said before, it was never an option and it isn't happening.

 

[ColorMeFamous]

 

[MrsBabyBump]

glad its not an option.
and how far along are you now?
that looks soo much different than my 6 weeks 5 days u/s. lol

 

[ColorMeFamous]

I'm 8 weeks 3 days! Oh? How so?

 

[MommyNikki]

Hey just a quick question...I was reading your thread and it said you used "double protection" when you conceived...but I thought when I talked to you last you were saying that you were TTC and if you didnt get preggo that cycle that you were going to start b/c like mirena, but you ended up getting pregnant...so did you conceive using protection or not?

 

[ColorMeFamous]

I was in the two week wait. For some reason I really felt like I was pregnant and so I went on. I got pregnant with protection. I wasn't trying. I just figured I'd have the two week wait. If I wasn't pregnant then yeah I was due for Mirena last month.

 

[hunni12]

I'm confused by the date on the scan, it says Nov 12,2012?

 

[lindsloo]

You were posting all over ttc after a loss and said that you were trying

 

[lindsloo]

And you said that he thought you were on the pill and you thought he pulled out?

 

[hunni12]

One more thing...in another thread you said "The father moved back home-England-because his family member is dying", but here you tell us he said u were lying and blocked contact with you..

and here https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/m...ver-miscarriage-without-being-able-ttc-2.html you said "I mean I was on the pill and my bf pulled out before he even finished and I was due to get on Mirena in the next two weeks!"

what's really going on? We're not bashing you but we do want the truth

 

[x__amour]

If you ladies think something's up, report it and let admin take care of it.

 

[Emma11511]

Well this is confusing!

But ColorMeFamous, I hope you're okay xxx

 

[MrsBabyBump]

very confusing!
and my scan at almost 7 weeks didn't even look like anything more than a jelly-bean. lol so i was like woah! when i seen yours. amazing how much changes in such a lil' bit of time!

 

[Tasha]

I'm confused by the date on the scan, it says Nov 12,2012?

She is from Canada right? I thought that Canadians did it DD/MM/YY just like us British?

 

[Tasha]

very confusing!
and my scan at almost 7 weeks didn't even look like anything more than a jelly-bean. lol so i was like woah! when i seen yours. amazing how much changes in such a lil' bit of time!

I had scans from 5 weeks with my little girl who was born sleeping, sometimes once a week, sometimes twice and oh my goodness the change between six and ten weeks was amazing. By eight weeks she was looking much more baby like and my ten weeks I shared an ultrasound on here that you could see her little toes

I would be really upset if this was my thread.