With my last baby i had a private gender scan at 16 weeks because i just couldn't wait to find out, and im so glad i did it was a much better experience than finding out at the 20week scan because that is all its about, there was music playing gently and a great big tv screen to see baby on it was lovely, i found at hospital at my 20 week scans with my first two and its just very rushed and not as nice i dont think, i wished i was having a private gender scan this time