mattiesmom13
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So I just joined this website as I was on another and found it kind of irritating and depressing at the same time. It was a strictly ttc site not an all around pregnancy site. Too many am I pregnant questions.
Anyway, I've been charting since April. I typically have a 29 to 33 day cycle depending on O. I do know I have a 13 day luteal phase. Seeing as how there are lots of ladies on here both pregnant and trying to become pregnant, I was wondering if you all could give me some insight.
Last cycle I had cramps and brown cm at 11dpo. Unusual for me. I got my hopes up thinking implantation bleeding especially since af was due at 14dpo and she never showed. I had no cramps or spotting after 11dpo.
Well I took lots of tests and never got a positive. Af finally came 8 days late. It was a little lighter and milder than usual. But I started a new cycle. So now this cycle I had kind of the same thing happen. Yesterday at 11dpo I got a bit cramps and had brown cm. It was milder than last cycle and shorter. Only a couple hours. It was mostly in the evening. Now I'm 12dpo and cramps are gone so it spotting. Af is due Saturday, the day after tomorrow! I am very hesitant to say yesterday was IB because of last cycle. I thought it was a chemical at first but was told by ladies on the other site I was on that it wasn't because I never got a bfp. They suggested a hormone imbalance.
I'm not over or underweight. I'm about 145 and 5' 9". My bmi is right in the middle of healthy.
So my question is, WHAT is going on? Is this time really possible implantation? Or is there some hormonal imbalance going on? Can I fix it? I had normal healthy cycles now this and the last have been funky. I tested at 9 dpo it was bfn but that was also before I had the cramping and brown cm. I am waiting until af is late to test now. But I don't feel like I can even rely on that because of my last cycle.
Any opinions or suggestions are welcome. I just need some material to work with for possibilities. Is it IB? Is it something else? I don't think it's af gearing up since it stopped completely and last time af was 8 DAYS LATE following this. I'm confused. I do a lot of independent research and I don't understand this. I just want to know what af will do now on Saturday.
Anyway, I've been charting since April. I typically have a 29 to 33 day cycle depending on O. I do know I have a 13 day luteal phase. Seeing as how there are lots of ladies on here both pregnant and trying to become pregnant, I was wondering if you all could give me some insight.
Last cycle I had cramps and brown cm at 11dpo. Unusual for me. I got my hopes up thinking implantation bleeding especially since af was due at 14dpo and she never showed. I had no cramps or spotting after 11dpo.
Well I took lots of tests and never got a positive. Af finally came 8 days late. It was a little lighter and milder than usual. But I started a new cycle. So now this cycle I had kind of the same thing happen. Yesterday at 11dpo I got a bit cramps and had brown cm. It was milder than last cycle and shorter. Only a couple hours. It was mostly in the evening. Now I'm 12dpo and cramps are gone so it spotting. Af is due Saturday, the day after tomorrow! I am very hesitant to say yesterday was IB because of last cycle. I thought it was a chemical at first but was told by ladies on the other site I was on that it wasn't because I never got a bfp. They suggested a hormone imbalance.
I'm not over or underweight. I'm about 145 and 5' 9". My bmi is right in the middle of healthy.
So my question is, WHAT is going on? Is this time really possible implantation? Or is there some hormonal imbalance going on? Can I fix it? I had normal healthy cycles now this and the last have been funky. I tested at 9 dpo it was bfn but that was also before I had the cramping and brown cm. I am waiting until af is late to test now. But I don't feel like I can even rely on that because of my last cycle.
Any opinions or suggestions are welcome. I just need some material to work with for possibilities. Is it IB? Is it something else? I don't think it's af gearing up since it stopped completely and last time af was 8 DAYS LATE following this. I'm confused. I do a lot of independent research and I don't understand this. I just want to know what af will do now on Saturday.