seaweed - I'm glad you're taking a break. Sometimes when you're met with this much resistance it means they're not ready, or you're not ready, or both. Nothing wrong with taking a breather and trying again later!
polaris - I agree with Noelle, time to let the kitty CIO
Seriously though, I have had this issue with cats before, the only solution is to ignore them. The moment you respond and give them any kind of attention the problem becomes way bigger.
Twister - I wish I knew how to help with the 5am wakings
We are still dealing with them here. Noelle's link has a lot of great suggestions though, hopefully you'll find it helpful.
So the good news is that LO has continued waking around 5am the past few days. The bad news is that she's waking at 5am. This means that most nights she's only getting around 9.5 hours of sleep.
It's been over a month of this (with a few 6am wakings tossed in to give me false hope) and I'm feeling pretty despondent about fixing it at this point. I've rearranged her nap schedule so that she's only awake for 2-4 hours before bed, but that didn't do anything. Running in there and trying to soothe her doesn't help; sometimes she'll lie still and try to go back to sleep while I pat her but it never works and I just get frustrated standing there for an hour. If I don't go in she tries to go to sleep on her own after a few minutes but by 5:30 she is crying again.
I think I may try putting her to bed a full 30 minutes earlier and see if that helps. She's going to be at daycare today for a half day which means she's probably going to be missing her normal morning naptime so who knows how that's going to screw things up...