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Noelle610
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So I'm hoping all of you ladies can help me out. I'm trying to decide what the next step is to getting my LO's sleep on track...
She's 7mo old and sleeps in a cosleeper next to our bed. She's breastfed with one solids meal a day, usually in the evening. Nursing is last thing we do before I put her down, but she is not completely asleep (e.g. she usually fusses a bit once I lay her down). We have bedtime routine of change into pjs, book, nurse and to sleep. I put her down around 7:15pm. I usually don't leave the room for about 5 minutes after she has quieted down bc our bedroom door is really loud and wakes her up if I've just put her down. She usually sleeps until midnight or 1am with occassional wakeups around 10ish, that can typically be soothed with shush and pat in 5-10minutes. After 1am sometimes she's usually up every 45minutes to an hour, but sometimes she'll sleep for longer. But since she's learned to stand up in the cosleeper, she usually stands when she wakes up which seems to extend the amount of time she is awake each time. So I lay her back down and shush and pat. I do one feeding between 1-2am and then another one later, usually between 4-5am. She usually starts waking up more around 5:30 or so, so I bring her into bed with us and she usually sleeps until 7 when I have to get up.
Naps are not great. Usually 3x30 minutes, sometimes a longer one thrown in there.
I'm not ready for CC yet, but I would appreciate any thoughts on next steps to help her out. Thanks for your help.
I think a few things would help:
Move nursing to the beginning or even the middle of your bedtime routine. If she's going down more awake, her self soothing skills will improve.
I would move her into her own space. I think you only have one bedroom, is that correct? Even if there's some divide between you (she's closer to the door and maybe there's a screen in between) I think she'll be less likely to need to nurse back to sleep every sleep cycle.
I'd try increasing her solid intake. I don't necessarily know that it will help her sleep longer at night, but I think it would make you more confident that she's not hungry and that you can space out night feedings a bit. I'd introduce some protein - avocado, yogurt, meats, cheeses are all good sources.