polaris
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Stephie, that's great that the mattress on the floor and side-carred cot will hopefully work for you!
To answer your questions - Clara does feed at the majority of night wakings. For a while I was making good progress on settling her in other ways and I was trying to only feed her maximum twice a night. However that has sort of gone out the window over the last month mainly because she has been unwell constantly, with a cold, then conjunctivitis, then the dreaded chicken pox. She just really wanted to feed for comfort and I was also glad for her to be getting whatever antibodies she could from the milk to help her fight off the illness. But now that she's better (fingers crossed!) I think I will go back to working on limiting night feeds. I'm not quite ready yet because I need to catch up on a bit of sleep myself first, but maybe after the weekend.
I stopped bedsharing with Clara when she was almost seven months because it just really wasn't working any more and no-one was getting any sleep. I moved her to the cot in our room first and it was very difficult. I had been trying to put her in the cot for part of the night for a few weeks but it was getting harder instead of easier. This is when I did CC to help her to learn to self-settle in the cot. Looking back it probably wasn't the best idea to move straight to CC from bedsharing but I was really desperate at the time and her sleep just seemed to be getting worse and worse. Moving her to her own room was really easy in comparison, it didn't actually impact on her sleep at all. She actually was in her brother's room for a couple of weeks because I do eventually want them to share a room. But this wasn't really working out partly because I worried that she was disturbing him (even though he actually never woke up!) but mainly because he was disturbing her when he was going to bed (she usually did wake up when he was going to bed and it was really upsetting his bedtime routine) and I also worried that his night light was affecting her sleep. So now she's in the spare room which actually works out well because as I said there is a futon in there that I can sleep on when she is very unsettled. Eventually though I would love for them to share a room and have a spare room again. When she's sleeping a bit better....
To answer your questions - Clara does feed at the majority of night wakings. For a while I was making good progress on settling her in other ways and I was trying to only feed her maximum twice a night. However that has sort of gone out the window over the last month mainly because she has been unwell constantly, with a cold, then conjunctivitis, then the dreaded chicken pox. She just really wanted to feed for comfort and I was also glad for her to be getting whatever antibodies she could from the milk to help her fight off the illness. But now that she's better (fingers crossed!) I think I will go back to working on limiting night feeds. I'm not quite ready yet because I need to catch up on a bit of sleep myself first, but maybe after the weekend.
I stopped bedsharing with Clara when she was almost seven months because it just really wasn't working any more and no-one was getting any sleep. I moved her to the cot in our room first and it was very difficult. I had been trying to put her in the cot for part of the night for a few weeks but it was getting harder instead of easier. This is when I did CC to help her to learn to self-settle in the cot. Looking back it probably wasn't the best idea to move straight to CC from bedsharing but I was really desperate at the time and her sleep just seemed to be getting worse and worse. Moving her to her own room was really easy in comparison, it didn't actually impact on her sleep at all. She actually was in her brother's room for a couple of weeks because I do eventually want them to share a room. But this wasn't really working out partly because I worried that she was disturbing him (even though he actually never woke up!) but mainly because he was disturbing her when he was going to bed (she usually did wake up when he was going to bed and it was really upsetting his bedtime routine) and I also worried that his night light was affecting her sleep. So now she's in the spare room which actually works out well because as I said there is a futon in there that I can sleep on when she is very unsettled. Eventually though I would love for them to share a room and have a spare room again. When she's sleeping a bit better....