stephie_corin
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SE I feel like I've missed you around here, hope life hasn't been too busy sorry you are having a tough time too! Hugs to you hon xxx
Amy, JessicaTunnel - she fed her Lilly to sleep and I do believe she grew out of the sleep association and STTN arond 7/8 months. Maybe she will pop in and tell you more. It does happen.
In terms of daycare, are all the babies a similar age? That gets so much easier when they're older and take fewer naps.
Amy, JessicaTunnel - she fed her Lilly to sleep and I do believe she grew out of the sleep association and STTN arond 7/8 months. Maybe she will pop in and tell you more. It does happen.
In terms of daycare, are all the babies a similar age? That gets so much easier when they're older and take fewer naps.
Yes, that was who I was thinking about, thanks! Hope she can relay her story if she sees this and has time!
At daycare, the babies in that room can range anywhere from newborn to a year old. I think they either have to get used to sleeping in the racket, or they nap like crap until they move to the next room where they do have scheduled nap times. Small towns = not much in terms of choice for daycare!
Hi girls long time no post!
Jack has started sitting up in his sleep! He did it twice last night. He can't get down so has to be laid down by us but then immediately sleeps again. It's so strange! Have any of you got advice re that?
Also as he's now at 3 different child cares during the week I have lost control of his naps He still needs 2 as his morning wake up is tending to be around 6.30 so by 10am he's tired. Thing is they often report that he had like 2 45min naps. At home he would have much longer naps. And he's often overtired which I think is contributing to early wake ups. I don't think there is much I can do about this? If he would have one nap days I think they would find it easier but I can't see him getting to lunch time! Any advice girls?
Also he's getting 2 pre molars now and has started pulling to standing and cruising so its all going on!!
Hope you're all well xx
Hi girls long time no post!
Jack has started sitting up in his sleep! He did it twice last night. He can't get down so has to be laid down by us but then immediately sleeps again. It's so strange! Have any of you got advice re that?
Also as he's now at 3 different child cares during the week I have lost control of his naps He still needs 2 as his morning wake up is tending to be around 6.30 so by 10am he's tired. Thing is they often report that he had like 2 45min naps. At home he would have much longer naps. And he's often overtired which I think is contributing to early wake ups. I don't think there is much I can do about this? If he would have one nap days I think they would find it easier but I can't see him getting to lunch time! Any advice girls?
Also he's getting 2 pre molars now and has started pulling to standing and cruising so its all going on!!
Hope you're all well xx
Nothing changes Boo. Finlay and Jack react in exactly the same way to things!!! The learning to lay back down doesnt take that long. I'd say the phase lasted a week or two max. He still sits bolt upright with his eyes shut if he is woken by pain or wind, but I can lay him down and within seconds he is calm and asleep again. No idea why half asleep he wants to be upright when the rest of us would huddle under a duvet!! Also at nursery for the first few weeks he had x3 30-45 min naps a day. His last session he managed a 90min am nap and a 45min pm one. I think they just get better as they become more settled in their surroundings. Finlay also has a toy and his own blanket which we take in which might be helping.
How are you finding work?
As for us the early riser seems to be catching up on months of sleep, lying in until 7.30. It's making me late for work and I'm ever so behind on my washing.
Hey Amy! I'm sorry you're having a tough time, trust me, I've been there! I remember the days when she was waking up 7+ times a night and sometimes even up to 16/17! I honestly thought, there is NO WAY she will EVER sleep through the night. Well, she is now! And has been since.. 7 months I think?
We were feeding her to sleep from the day she was born. I knew it was such a bad habit but gosh, anything just to get her to sleep right? I actually messaged Noelle and asked for tips on how to get her to sleep without feeding to sleep and she gave me really good tips but in my head I was thinking, "Psh, yeah that will NOT work with Lilly." Lilly definitely was NOT the kind of baby I could just stick in the crib and walk out. She would SCREAM. Our bedtime routine was bath, story, bottle, bed. She was always falling asleep on the bottle, even if I tried to keep her awake it wouldn't work or she would get REALLY mad. Noelle suggested I move the bottle to the beginning of our routine. I wasn't completely confident that moving the bottle to the beginning of our routine would work so I kept it the same but instead of feeding her upstairs in her room in the dark, I brought her downstairs and read her a story and then fed her in the living room with dim lights. Being downstairs, she thought it was still play time and it was actually quite difficult getting her to drink the bottle because she wanted to play and I just kept thinking, "This is going to be a rough night, she's not going to go down after this, maybe I should just feed her to sleep?" I eventually got her to drink her full bottle and daddy gave her kisses and told her night night and I took her upstairs and laid her in her crib. Usually the moment her head touched the mattress she would cry but she just looked up at me. I gave her kisses, told her night night, covered her up and walked out. To my surprise and amazement she went to sleep! No crying, no fussing. She talked a little bit to herself but yeah, she self soothed and I was so proud. But I thought, this was a fluke, it's not going to last. Well she did it again the next night! And the next one, and the next one! It eventually got to where we would give her her bottle around 7, and let her walk around and drink it on her own however fast she wanted to, then we would do the rest of our routine and have her in bed by 730 with her putting herself to sleep. I never in a million years thought it would be so easy, or that my crazy fed to sleep obsessed baby would ever cooperate so well!
Amy, that amount of daytime sleep would be far, far too much for my LO. I know mine is on the lower end in terms of daytime sleep, and you said you try to let yours catch up since she doesn't sleep enough during the week, but it still sounds like a lot to me.
How old did you say she is? Almost 7 months? The wake times sound short for that age, too. It's interesting that you say she is cranky and ready to sleep by that time! Many of us in this thread have moved to 2 naps at that age and found that it has helped a lot. What do you think would happen if you stretched her wake times to 3 hours? Total meltdown?