Time to catch up! I'm sure I'll miss someone, but here goes...
Stephie - I'm sorry to hear DH has moved downstairs. Hope your nights start getting more restful.
And that the crying stops -- it's hard to hear them wake up unhappy. Are things still going better during the day with 3, 3.5, 3.5? Where are those teeth?? So funny btw, Munchkin won't nurse lying down either. I haven't met many other moms whose babies won't!
Noelle - Are things going better? I hope so
I hear molars can be really tough. Definitely dreading it. When are you leaving on your travels? It seems like she does adjust well, so I'm sure you'll be able to resolve quickly any disruption that results from traveling!
Shadowy - Munchkin is 21 lbs and we switched to size 4 a few weeks ago. Have you started the Huggies diapers yet? I hope you haven't had any more leaks.
Melly - Sorry things have been up and down. I know it always takes a little while to adjust, and it's hard when things keep changing and you never get to take advantage of LO's better sleep. I hope you get some more rest soon
Vikki - Glad things are going well
interesting that you had a good one-nap day! Maybe you will be ready to transition to one nap soon.
Gaia - So sorry you've had a tough week.
it sounds like you have good reason to keep blaming teething! He does keep getting teeth! It's when no teeth ever appear that it really seems ridiculous.
And separation anxiety can really make bedtime difficult no matter what, and I think crawling might really be to blame for the bedtime struggles. I'm sorry you are going through this again (or still)...I know it really sucks to start dreading every evening. You already know that this will pass...but really! It will!!!
DJ - How are things going? I think you've gotten good advice and I hope it's continued to be better! Does your LO have separation anxiety during the day? Mine does, and I know when I stand in his room while he's trying to sleep it seems to make things worse initially, but later he calms down much much more quickly when I'm there.
Mandi - I wouldn't worry too much about which nap your LO is dropping. She is at the right age to move to 2 naps. I would try going by wake times for a 2 nap schedule (something like 2/3/4 or 3/3.5/3.5, or adjust depending on how many hours of sleep she gets per day) and see if that causes the naps to extend. It does really quickly for most babies, but not for all -- up until this week mine was having 80%+ short naps (45 min or less) and he still refused a third nap most days, so two was still the right thing for us. But that probably won't happen to you!
Rmsh - How are things going?
I think white noise is considered better than music because it's more neutral and consistent, so it's better at masking other noises and it's exactly the same whenever LO wakes up and hears it. But if music is working then I don't think it's a big deal. I hope you've had some more good nights! 2 wakings is great for an EBF baby her age IMO. I wouldn't go down the road of questioning your supply...you've managed to feed a healthy, growing baby this long so I'm sure you are fine! It's normal for it to be a bit lower in the evenings. What some people do is pump in the mornings when they find they have extra, and then give a bottle in the evening to balance things out. But if just offering more seems to help, then wonderful.
Regarding nappies, I would definitely go up a size. Maybe use the leftovers during the day if they still work for that?
Amy - I'm glad for the good nights but sorry to hear about the bad ones! I hope those teeth are out soon and you and LO both get more rest
it sounds like things might be better on the whole though, is that right?
NotNic - I love reading about your sweet boy!
I hope his mouth feels better soon! Glad that WIO is feeling like the right option.
Polaris - I hope things have continued to go better!
So glad Clara is sleeping better and you are feeling more relaxed (about Thomas too!).
Kettle - Did it end up being the sleep suit or the draped blanket?
I hope naps have continued to be good!
Rachel - :wave: sorry you have had to find your way to this thread! I think at this age sometimes they just get too excited to sleep
I was going to give you similar advice about wake times so definitely try that. And if LO is fighting, make sure you are doing something stimulating during every WT...in particular, make sure to give him plenty of practice for any new motor skills (is he working on any of those at the moment?). Short naps are not necessarily the kiss of death if your LO seems rested. Just move bedtime earlier so that the WTs don't stretch too much. Yes, my understanding is the same as Polaris' and NN's, that the last WT matters the most.
AFM! Things are pretty great! Munchkin is settling well and usually waking once or twice per night. I've been nursing each time, with the exception of once last week, but taking him off and putting him down awake. I wish there were a way for him to get more sleep at night though...it's often less than 10 hours and I can tell it's not enough for him, but he won't go down earlier most nights and he's already sleeping until 6-6:30 most mornings (knock on wood) so I don't expect him to sleep much later. The evening car nap is a real problem. He's going to be starting full days at daycare next month
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so I know our routines are going to change a lot anyway, but hopefully I will be able to pick him up earlier most days and then he can get to bed earlier.
I'm a little nervous, though, about the fact that he has to get used to two new beds in the next couple of months...one in his new room at daycare, and then the pack 'n' play when we go away in August for a few days. He seems to be very attached to his particular crib mattress now. The pack 'n' play is at my parents' house right now and I've tried using it for naps, but he hates it and won't sleep there. I don't want to go through a whole new transition where I have to put the pack 'n' play in his room and gradually get him used to it...it took so long for him to get used to his crib in the first place, remember.
But I'm afraid that's what we will have to do, and I'm dreading it. Unless some of you have other ideas??