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Noelle610
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So sorry Stella! Currently going through something very similar with my 7 month old and teething. Big hugs to you.
Oh my goodness will this never end....
My almost 8 month old is up llike every 45 minutes to a hour the last few nights. She did this about 3 weeks ago for about a week and then a tooth came through so I'm wondering if she is getting another tooth.
All she wants to do at night is nurse, nothing else will sooth her. I'm SOOOOO tired.
I'm so afraid she is not getting enough sleep. It's a struggle lately to get her down for naps aswell and when I do there like 20 minutes thats it.
I wouldn't mind the 20 minute naps if she slepts well at night but she doesn't, no joke when I say she is up like 15 times a night. I'm so fustrated, I get NO help from husband either, all on me.
I can only pray for a better night tonight.
Oh I finally got her sleeping in her swing right now, hopefully she naps for awhile, she needs it.
Wow, big hugs to you, that is so tough I hope it is just teething and she'll get back to sleeping well once the tooth cuts through (which should be soon!). Have you tried giving her some pain meds to see if it helps? My LO is teething right now and I find she sleeps a lot better when I give her a dose of ibuprofen before bed.
I hear that med's would make baby sleepy and yes I have tried but it has no affect on her, figures right? lol. She doesn't get sleepy from it.
I think I'm just a little more fustrated today becasue last night I went to a Christmas Party where I saw two co workers who have babies aswell and they just could not beleive that my DD is up SO much, like always there babies are sleeping 12 hour long stretches and have been since 6 months. It's making me feel as though I'm doing something wrong, and I feel like a failure. All I want to do is cry today.
ALso I just feel as though I get no help from husband, I know I'm EBF (daughter won't take a bottle) but he could try and help soothe her so maybe she will learn tp ss on her own, with me she just won't, an wants boobies....
Ahhhh motherhood, I never new could be so hard, YES rewarding but still SO hard....
I hear that med's would make baby sleepy and yes I have tried but it has no affect on her, figures right? lol. She doesn't get sleepy from it.
I think I'm just a little more fustrated today becasue last night I went to a Christmas Party where I saw two co workers who have babies aswell and they just could not beleive that my DD is up SO much, like always there babies are sleeping 12 hour long stretches and have been since 6 months. It's making me feel as though I'm doing something wrong, and I feel like a failure. All I want to do is cry today.
ALso I just feel as though I get no help from husband, I know I'm EBF (daughter won't take a bottle) but he could try and help soothe her so maybe she will learn tp ss on her own, with me she just won't, an wants boobies....
Ahhhh motherhood, I never new could be so hard, YES rewarding but still SO hard....
Ibuprofen doesn't make babies sleepy but if they're not sleeping well because they're in pain it can help with that. I'm sorry to hear it hasn't helped your girl though!
Please don't beat yourself up, chances are your daughter's sleep issues have very little to do with anything you have or haven't done. I definitely sympathize with you, though - I'm a single mom and my LO is also EBF and refuses to take a bottle. It's ridiculous that your husband won't help you at night, you should not have to be dealing with this by yourself when you have a partner there! And like you said, it's so much harder for a nursing mom to soothe her baby back to sleep without feeding than it would be for him to do it. Maybe he would be more receptive if you put together a short-term gameplan, like "You handle the wakings between this time and this time for the next week and we'll see if that helps," so that he wouldn't feel that he's on the hook forever? Not that he shouldn't be on the hook forever - it's his kid too!
How much is she eating when you nurse her at night? Does she just suck and then go straight back to sleep or does she actively nurse for a while?
The main issue is my reaction which is to worry that 'everything is ruined' and get all upset about it. I think the worst thing is the hope each night that whatever you've tried that night might make it all ok, then the disappointment when I hear him waking up. Argh it's so stressful!
I def let it get to me too much and I know I need to work at going with the flow a bit - but I've never been like that about anything, I'm a complete analyser!!
Bananaz- I have been wanting to ask- do you take those pictures of Elsie yourself??? The photos are always so beautiful!