Really want another but terrified of another mc

[Mummy1506]

Hello all,

I'm in the process of recovering from an early mc. We really would love another child but I'm already terrified of suffering another mc it will be a few months before we start ttc again.

Will these feelings change or will the fear always be the same?

 

[mummy2o]

It's different for everyone, but they generally will stay the same. Generally after you reach pass the time you miscarried then head into the 2nd trimester you feel better. As for me I've had 1 early miscarriage and 2 late miscarriages so it's slightly different. My save point will be V-day at 24 weeks, until then I'll be a wreck. Think we're NTNP this cycle then go from there.

 

[dani_tinks]

I'm feeling the same. So confused whether to continue trying or not

 

[Mummy1506]

Thanks for your replies ladies. So hard getting through something like this.

 

[Trying4first1]

I lost my second angel just over 3 months ago now. I am just as anxious but I still have hope. Sorry you also find yourself here x

 

[Dana_Scully]

I know how you feel. With my first MC I never wanted to try again. I waited for my period to come and then my husband badgered me to try again and I got pregnant on the first try. Now I'm glad he bothered me lol But with this MC, being the second one, I'm not sure how to feel either.

 

[flou]

I had 2 losses before conceiving my DS. Third time was a charm for me. Because of my two losses I was petrified when I got pg for a third time. But as the pregnancy progressed it did get easier but I did worry throughout the pregnancy. More than I would have done if I hadn't experienced just over 3 years ttc and 2 losses. However, my little man was worth all the pain, both emotional and physical, that I went through. If I had had a different journey I wouldn't have had him. I hope you all get your rainbows soon!