Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

[Goodgirl35]

Padbrat

I hope that your spotting is only implantation/ old blood. It makes me so nervous when I read about someone miscarrying! Be Blessed.

 

[lynnb]

Lambs -don't give up yet, what time is your blood test?

Deb - As I've said on another thread, brown spotting is old blood & no cramping is a good sign

Fx'd for both of you

 

[LeeC]

Hi Lambs & Padbrat.

Just thought I'd stop by to see how you are both doing today?

Lee x

 

[daviess3]

Afternoon ladies, lamb padbrat how u doing ladies??? xxx

 

[Lamburai1703]

I'm ok I guess. I am waiting for confirmation by way of a blood test to confirm the inevitable. Hopefully results will be back before the end of the day. I have booked to see Mr Shehata as this was our last resort, and I think we have now reached this point. Thanks for all your well wishes.

Pad - I hope you are doing ok. I'll pm you my number if you ever want to whinge via text or anything!

 

[LeeC]

Lambs. Keep your chin up and I'm still hoping for a good outcome for you but I hear you.
Yep, Dr Shehata is my next and last call too, just discussed this with my psych who has been doing lots of research for me.
He reckons (off the record) everything from Ov.
Keep us all posted and sending you a massive cyber hug xxx

 

[Lamburai1703]

HCG results just in. They've dropped from 1447 on Wednesday to 1415 today. I'm stopping the meds today as I don't see the point continuing. I'm not sure I see the point in TTC at all to be honest as all it brings is heartache. I now just want this one to be over.

 

[hopefulmama2b]

dammit. I don't even know what to say, Lamb. This is not fair. I hope your DH is around today for some support.

 

[heart tree]

Just popping in to send hugs to Padbrat and Lambs. It's been a while since I've been here, but I stalk every now and again. My heart goes out to you Lambs.

Padbrat, keep us posted. I keep thinking pink thoughts for you and your bub.

I'm at the point now where surrogacy might be my only option. As much as I want to carry my own baby, I know that the baby is what I want more. So we've started pursuing that route. We're still going to try naturally, but having a Plan B makes it feel less scary in case I miscarry again (assuming I ever get pregnant again).

Love to you all. xoxo

 

[LeeC]

Lambs. I'm so sorry and know exactly what you mean and how you feel. I found it hard when I stopped the meds, as like you I just wanted it over.
I've heard wonderful things about Shehata, hopefully all this heartache will be worth it in the end.
xxx

 

[padbrat]

Lambs my friend is with Dr Sheharta and says he is amazing, she can't get preg and has had IVF and M/C 4 times. She has been tested for NK and has come out high high NK. she has started his protocol and then will do the IVF in Sept.

Although as you say TTC seems a frikkin pointless exercise ... well that is how we feel anyway. Hubby has said if I lose this one I am back on the pill... urgghhh.

LeeC and Davies how are you?

thanks Goodgirl x

Heart it is fabulous to see you again xx

 

[Hollybush75]

Big hugs to Lambs and Padbrat

 

[Goodgirl35]

~ Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent. ~

Ladies never give up. Lambs, I know it's heart breaking when it happens but time heals all wounds. I would definitely try to eliminate some of the meds and see if that will work. I've been researching and I read that aspirin interacts with the prednisolone. I want you all to have your babies so bad till I've been reading and researching my ass off.

I've forgotten all about myself. One of my clients was pregnant and had an abortion. I wanted to spray water all over her but I remained calm. I saw a lady sitting outside stomach all big and swollen smoking.....I was like and these are the ladies that get to have their babies????

I was given hope within my heart bc I know that soon and very soon I'm going to get to experience the life of raising my own children.

Hoping the best for all of us!

 

[LeeC]

Thanks For asking about me Padbrat when you are dealing with your own problems. I am keeping my fx'd for you.
My dh said exactly the same to me last week too, I just think he's sick of me being driven to the brink everytime this happens.
I'm hoping good things for this little bean and for you.

I also believe Shehata's treatment works after speaking with my specialist, the midwife at his clinic and patients.
Smidgen is testimony to his success.

I am absolutely throwing everything at the next one from Ov, Lambs when is your appt. Louise at the clinic said they have an 85% success rate of getting women to term, she told me not to worry about my age too, so it did give me some hope albeit I know it's my last one.

Cyber hugs to you both xxx.

 

[LeeC]

Meant to ask Holly. How are you feeling now? Hugs to you too x.

 

[mandy1971]

Lambs and padrat thinking of you.. Be strong.. Saying a wee prayer for you both., fingers and toes crossed that it's not bad news.. Xxx

 

[LeeC]

Hi Mandy.

How are things going with you? Hope all is well.

X

 

[Hollybush75]

Meant to ask Holly. How are you feeling now? Hugs to you too x.

I'm doing really well thanks for asking
It all feels like it was a bad dream now

I had a pretty bad day yesterday as the second lady out of three pg ones left for mat leave. She was all smug and happy standing there stroking her bump and I truly wanted to smack the smile off her face. It's an awful thing to say but I just did. Then when she left I had all the imbecilic thick trolls in my office saying "oooh so-and-so will be next to get pregnant" and it made me feel totally excluded. I sat there and seethed - they all know my history though they don't know about the last loss. I had to walk out of the office before I shouted "I'M the one who deserves to be next before any of you lot".........grrrrrrrrrrrrr

I am enjoying the break from BBTing and looking out for every twinge wondering if it's ovulation approaching. I'm enjoying working on helping my poor body to get to health but it's hard when I think my thyroid is still under-performing cos I'm dragging around a pretty constant tiredness and have done since before I got pg the last time. I know my TSH was up high again 5 weeks ago and they have increased my meds BUT I don't think the increase is enough but that's my thoughts!! I'm having TFT bloods done on Wednesday as my endo wanted an interim test to see how I'm doing on the increase so we shall see.

How is everyone else?

 

[petitpas]

Hi, I'm stopping by with a rubbish update. I'm 5+1 and spotting. Grrrrrr

 

[LeeC]

Hi Pip. I am keeping everything crossed for you honey, I'm hoping this is nothing for you to worry about.
It's been a crappy few days on this thread so I'm really hoping you will be back here with good news soon.

Holly, some people can just be down right insensitive, you have every right to feel how you do, I'm feeling like that myself too at the moment.
I hope everything is ok with tests and you can get ready to TTC again.

Lambs & Padbrat. How are you ladies doing?

X