Recurrent Miscarriage Thread

[daviess3]

Hi ladies got my appointment tommorow at 3.30pm!!! With the consultant am really scared!!! Dunno what I'm gonna do if they say nothing they can do!! Soooo nervous!! Hope everyones ok xx

 

[LeeC]

Hi Davies. Good luck. Hope you get some answers. Will be thinking of you x

 

[ClaireH]

Defo doing the midnight walk. Brilliant idea and thanks for organising the Scottish walk Lee. Will be fab to meet you too! xxxxxx

 

[coco84]

Hey ladies, just catching up on the thread, so sorry to read all the sad news. Hope you ladies are doing ok.

That walk is such a good ides leeC, i live in glasgow too but i am away at the moment, wish i could have done it, will be happy to make a donation though.

I have my consultant results appoitment tomorrow and really nervous, good luck with yours too Davies3. I am 8 weeks post D&C and still not had AF yet, getting very worried but hoping the GP can shed some light on this tomorrow.

xx

 

[LeeC]

Thank you so much Claire and Coco.

I am going to pm you both xxx

 

[petitpas]

Hi lee,
Can you repost the fb link, please? I'm getting someone's profile up

 

[LeeC]

Of course. Sorry the link for sponsorship is:


https://www.justgiving.com/Lee-Carber...rofile_oneline

 

[LeeC]

The link for the walk info is:

https://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=192135140834318

 

[petitpas]

Thanks, lee xxx

 

[coco84]

Donation made, good luck LeeC.

x

 

[iloveblue]

Thanks LeeC for bringing the midnight walk to my attention.
I've just signed up to organise one in Shrewsbury. x

 

[cindersmcphee]

Just donated Lee. I am not sure if I am working on 12th will need to check. I stay just outside Glasgow.

On another note have been at hospital today re ivf. Will be getting bloods and consents next month, then think will start jabs in Aug. So have changed my mood to excited rather than sad as looking to the future.

 

[cindersmcphee]

iloveblue - Sorry for your losses, did they not do any testing after your late loss. Did you have a pm?

Hi cinders
Yes they did do testing and we had a PM and everything came back clear. They didn't find a reason for it.
Sad and very frustrating.

I had an early loss at 6 weeks, followed by a loss of a twin early on and then other baby died in second tri. Testing showed that he had downs. I was glad I found out why. I am hopeful that early loss is common, then loss of a twin (re-absorbing twin) is also really common. And I know reason for my second tri loss. So I am trying to stay hopeful for future. My consultant said he is hopeful for future pregnancy as I carried baby and everything was going well had he not had the chromosone problem that caused him to gain his wings.

 

[Hollybush75]

Thanks for posting that LeeC. I've just asked if there is one in Wales/if anyone from Wales is interested

Good luck Daviess3

 

[lynnb]

Daviess3 & Coco84 - Good luck with your appointments today

Cindersmcphee - Good luck with the IVF, hope it brings your forever baby

 

[Josefin]

Hi! I just want to update a bit. I got my bfp two days ago, but aqfter two miscarriages I'm scared. If I get another one they will probably remove my myoma... Can't the 8 weeks left until 12w scan be gone now?! Really hope you girls get your bfp and that he babies stick!

 

[padbrat]

Well I am in for another scan tomorrow morning has have had a gush of red blood this morning. No pain as yet.

Phoned EPU who checked my scan from monday and they can see no reason why I would be bleeding...

Looks like me and Lambs will be drowning our sorrows in wine soon.

 

[lynnb]

Nooo Deb, oh hun I don't normally pray, but I am now. I'm praying that this is nothing, or something simple like a cyst or an infection that they can treat.

Sending you lots of Will be thinking of you tomorrow & sending you positive pink vibes.

 

[coco84]

Well ladies, had my appointment appointment today, came out feeling pretty angry really. All my test results were fine as was hubbys genetics, which is great news. She said both twins were genetically normal, i had no idea she was going to tell us the gender without asking us if we wanted to know so that upset me. We were having identical twin boys.

She wants me on asprin only for the whole cycle?? even before OV?? which from what i have read is not really the guideline? maybe someone can shed some light on this?

Anyways to cut a long story short have have lost faith in this Dr now, going to move on. She is not an expert in fertility as i looked her up. I have not had a period 9 weeks on and getting worried i have the classic signs of ashermans and want to try the 10 day course of the pillto try and kick start things but she said no i should wait another 3 months?? yes 3 MONTHS to see if anything shows up before then. grrr she said shes not concerned and its stress causing this i should go on holiday... well i've just come from a week in BLOODY italy and i'm not stressed, AHHH want to scream. She did agree in the end to take some blood to check my hormone levels.

Just want to cry really. I'm giving it a couple of weeks before booking an appointment with a private specialist, had enough of the NHS already...and i'm a nurse. She sure didnt like it when it became clear i knew more about the bloody test results than she did. All very well saying wait 3 months when its not her body eh?

Sorry about the novel ladies just needed a rant.

and Breathe. xxxx

 

[LeeC]

Padbrat and Coco bigs hugs xxx