DarlingMe
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Petition time! i found these 2 that will get discussed in
the house of commons if the get 100,000 signatures.
https://epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/1492
https://epetitions.direct.gov.uk/petitions/22577
My LOs cry pain is a screech and what makes it worse every time i hear it is that when she had her heel prick test she screamed but not to the level or the length of time that she does now, which implies that her reflux is more painful than a needle shoved in your ankle.
I think its probably a link between mis diagnosed PND and reflux as most of the symptoms of PND are easy to have without actually being depressed when your baby is ill and nothing you do will help them and no1 will help you to make them better. I know that i cry randomly for long lengths of time, but its because my baby is in pain, but to the Drs since to them the pain she is in inst that bad then im crying for no reason, I get angry with other people around me easily because i get angry at the medical proffesionals every time my LO has a reflux episode and i take my anger out on them, my appetite has been affected just because iv become used to being hungry were theres not enough time to make yourself something properly to eat when your a mum never mind when you have a baby who is ill! im irritable at anyone who doesnt understand what were going through and so chooses to ignore it. all these things are a sign of PND but im not depressed, im just upset that i have a baby who is in pain!
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Who wouldn't cry a lot? I can't think of anything I've found more distressing than the months spent watching my LO scream in pain with reflux. I've also been there as far as not getting time to eat or sleep properly - it took it's toll both physically and emotionally. My baby girl is now 13mths, still bf, on high dose omepraz+domper and is now a smiley, happy girl. I stopped cryin as soon as she did!!
2nd petition: looks good except the comments on weight gain. Babies with silent reflux often gain weght more quickly in the early months, as breastmilk helps neutralise tummy acid which leads to 'comfort feeding'. So quick weight gain can be as much a sugn of reflux as 'failure to thrive'. This was a HUGE problem for me - nobody would listen because she was gaining weight!! I eventually had to goto A&E at a childrens hospital where she was properly diagnosed, and her symptoms were really severe.
My LO also has SR and has gained weight quickly. Both Peds I have seen have commented "well he is eatting well" maybe in a FF baby the weight gain would always be abnormal but as you said BF babes will comfort suck, sometimes for hours! My LO had an apneic episode from the SR, that was the only way we got treatment, and I had to tell them what had happened and insisted not all LOs with reflux vomit or spit up. I would think something so common would be more common knowledge.