My lo is 3.5 weeks old and refluxy so I am pretty tired. Feeling a bit hopeless like I will never sleep again or be able to do anything other than feed lo. I am bfing and also supplementing using a lact aid which is a lot of work.
Thing is I am feeling really frustrated with DH. Not for the first few weeks but now, I let him sleep though the night so for several days he is getting normal amount of night sleep. But I feel like he still moves so slow doing everything. I can rush around and do 5 times the stuff in same time plus he is clearly acting tired when I've had only a tiny fraction if the sleep he is getting. If I mention this at all he gets upset because I don't do appreciate his help but really I am so tired I hurt and I am worn down because I feel like baby is in my arms ALL DAY. Because he can't feed baby doesn't settle as well for DH. So I am emotional and we are fighting a lot which makes it all worse.
I do appreciate him just wish he could be a bit more positive, efficient and maybe show more effort to treat me a bit given i am up all night with lo while he sleeps and that I do 90% of changes , all feeds etc. if I say anything though he'll just say.... "I changed him this morning" yeah but I've gone 5 times since then!!!!!! I just want to stop being bitter but it is so hard I could cry at thought he is asleep in his cosy bed.
Thing is I am feeling really frustrated with DH. Not for the first few weeks but now, I let him sleep though the night so for several days he is getting normal amount of night sleep. But I feel like he still moves so slow doing everything. I can rush around and do 5 times the stuff in same time plus he is clearly acting tired when I've had only a tiny fraction if the sleep he is getting. If I mention this at all he gets upset because I don't do appreciate his help but really I am so tired I hurt and I am worn down because I feel like baby is in my arms ALL DAY. Because he can't feed baby doesn't settle as well for DH. So I am emotional and we are fighting a lot which makes it all worse.
I do appreciate him just wish he could be a bit more positive, efficient and maybe show more effort to treat me a bit given i am up all night with lo while he sleeps and that I do 90% of changes , all feeds etc. if I say anything though he'll just say.... "I changed him this morning" yeah but I've gone 5 times since then!!!!!! I just want to stop being bitter but it is so hard I could cry at thought he is asleep in his cosy bed.