Ok how we met.....
I was married before to my college sweetheart....we moved here right before we got married. Things w/ him were rocky but I was young. DH was off at school most of the time I lived here with the ex, but I would see him around during xmas time and holidays. Well I left the ex b/c of his horrid drug problem (which I didnt know about till after I left, funny how ppl come out of the woodwork to tell you these things after teh fact but never tell you when you NEED to know.) I left b/c he was gettting increasingly violent, though he never hit me...but was punching walls etc. AND he wasnt working and spending all of my money....he was a heavy drinker (sounds like a charmer huh)...anyway, I left the ex and moved into an apt on my own....I stayed on the island b/c I was waiting for my job to transfer me back stateside, which they said they would. Anyway, I got transfered back to Florida about 9 months later and moved home. I decided I was not EVER going to get married and just live my life. In fact I was starting to look into adoption or sperm donors b/c I wanted a child of my own. Well, I had a lng weekend and decided to come back to the island to hang with some girlfirends. I have wonderful friends that I have made here. DH had just moved home from college and was taking over the family business. We ran into each other while he was having dinner with his family and me with my girlfriend. I remember remarking to my girlfriend how good looking I thought he was....but oh to young for me... (4 years younger). He said he had just got home and they were throwing him a welcome home party and if my girlfriend and I would stop by. Well we did and he and I hardly got to speak b/c he was busy with his guests. So I said my goodbyes and he walked us out and asked if I would go to the beach with him the next day while everyone was at work....well taht was our official first date...We spent the day chatting and had a wonderful time. So much so, my girlfriends husband saw how smitten i was...he changed my airline ticket and I ended up staying with my future dh for another 4 days....hahaahhaha....called into work and everything....hahahaah...well 7 months later I moved back down to be with him adn we got married 1 1/2 years after that...I must say the chemistry was immediate and strong....I think a part of me knew from that moment I saw him in the restaurant that I was going to be with him. He is a wonderful, caring, and loyal man....I got lucky with this one for sure......
Ok so sbb- hows that ovary doing? When do you get it checked out?
Kel, never, linny - how are you ladies doing?
sparkle - woohoo on that BFP....