S T M ( Single Teen Mummy & Mummy-to-be's )

[EmziixBo0o]

thank u xxx

 

[annawrigley]

come on summer brooke!

so me n kie are officially over..
i cant bring myself to change my relationship status on facebook.. i wanted him here for me i need him to be here for me.. how am i suposed 2 cope with suffering from depression and everythink on my own hes acting so heartless! says we should just be friends.. i never ever felt more allown!

i know everyone is different but your situation sounds pretty similar to mine so i'll tell you what helped for me
im 99% sure it was gareth that made me depressed, and it sounds like it was kieran that made you lets be honest neither of them treated us well but we just told ourselves thats all we deserved (which is not true! you deserve so much better! ) because thats how they made us think.
honestly dumping me was the best thing gareth ever did for me (apart from giving me my baby ), i knew if i let myself think about it too much id fall apart so i just tried not to think about it, kept myself busy with seeing friends and stuff and after like a couple of days i was sooo much happier. it seriously makes such a massive difference, and i realised im free now! lol. also if you can try not to speak to him or see him for a while (except for saturday if you still want to do that! ), it will really help you to get over him and realise you dont need him, i know its hard wondering what hes doing all the time, i used to drive myself crazy wondering that. but after a while you stop caring and it will probably make it much easier when you do see each other again!
me and gareth didnt hardly see each other for a couple of months but now we're perfectly fine, we're both over each other and know we'll never get back together but we're getting along and we can see each other regularly without it being awkward or hurting either of us. which is how it should be for your princess's sake

take no notice of me rambling on lol, just it seems you were in a pretty similar place to what i was and just to let you know it gets easier! keep strong xxx

 

[Mummy.To.Be]

Sounds good advice to me! ^^^^^^^^^

&& Omg Anna, look at your bump now!!
Gorgeous!

xXx

 

[EmziixBo0o]

come on summer brooke!

so me n kie are officially over..
i cant bring myself to change my relationship status on facebook.. i wanted him here for me i need him to be here for me.. how am i suposed 2 cope with suffering from depression and everythink on my own hes acting so heartless! says we should just be friends.. i never ever felt more allown!

i know everyone is different but your situation sounds pretty similar to mine so i'll tell you what helped for me
im 99% sure it was gareth that made me depressed, and it sounds like it was kieran that made you lets be honest neither of them treated us well but we just told ourselves thats all we deserved (which is not true! you deserve so much better! ) because thats how they made us think.
honestly dumping me was the best thing gareth ever did for me (apart from giving me my baby ), i knew if i let myself think about it too much id fall apart so i just tried not to think about it, kept myself busy with seeing friends and stuff and after like a couple of days i was sooo much happier. it seriously makes such a massive difference, and i realised im free now! lol. also if you can try not to speak to him or see him for a while (except for saturday if you still want to do that! ), it will really help you to get over him and realise you dont need him, i know its hard wondering what hes doing all the time, i used to drive myself crazy wondering that. but after a while you stop caring and it will probably make it much easier when you do see each other again!
me and gareth didnt hardly see each other for a couple of months but now we're perfectly fine, we're both over each other and know we'll never get back together but we're getting along and we can see each other regularly without it being awkward or hurting either of us. which is how it should be for your princess's sake

take no notice of me rambling on lol, just it seems you were in a pretty similar place to what i was and just to let you know it gets easier! keep strong xxx

Thanks huni..
i feel better this morning.. yesterday i was crying my eyes out.. but today im getting on with it..
ino he only finished with me friday/saturday.. but this lad took me the casino lastnight, cus id never been to one.. hes lovely! know him thru my friends.. but it got me out the house + i apreshiated that..
he said i best go out with them saturday night or he will be gutted, so im gunna go.. i think kieran and his mates are going the same place tho, but its pritty huge so FX i dont see them.. its sinkin in now.. i feel like i proberbly never did love him but i dont know is thats just how im feeling right now :\
xxx

 

[annawrigley]

aww you should def go out on saturday with them hope you have fun xx

 

[JoJo16]

aww anna your bump is soo perfect!!! jelous!!! lol xxxxx

 

[pinkribbon]

come on summer brooke!

so me n kie are officially over..
i cant bring myself to change my relationship status on facebook.. i wanted him here for me i need him to be here for me.. how am i suposed 2 cope with suffering from depression and everythink on my own hes acting so heartless! says we should just be friends.. i never ever felt more allown!

i know everyone is different but your situation sounds pretty similar to mine so i'll tell you what helped for me
im 99% sure it was gareth that made me depressed, and it sounds like it was kieran that made you lets be honest neither of them treated us well but we just told ourselves thats all we deserved (which is not true! you deserve so much better! ) because thats how they made us think.
honestly dumping me was the best thing gareth ever did for me (apart from giving me my baby ), i knew if i let myself think about it too much id fall apart so i just tried not to think about it, kept myself busy with seeing friends and stuff and after like a couple of days i was sooo much happier. it seriously makes such a massive difference, and i realised im free now! lol. also if you can try not to speak to him or see him for a while (except for saturday if you still want to do that! ), it will really help you to get over him and realise you dont need him, i know its hard wondering what hes doing all the time, i used to drive myself crazy wondering that. but after a while you stop caring and it will probably make it much easier when you do see each other again!
me and gareth didnt hardly see each other for a couple of months but now we're perfectly fine, we're both over each other and know we'll never get back together but we're getting along and we can see each other regularly without it being awkward or hurting either of us. which is how it should be for your princess's sake

take no notice of me rambling on lol, just it seems you were in a pretty similar place to what i was and just to let you know it gets easier! keep strong xxx

I read this and it felt like you were talking to me. You made a lot of fair points there. I've been to-ing and fro-ing about whether to stay or leave my OH and this has really got to me in a good way. Just wanted to say thankyou. x x

 

[annawrigley]

no problem, really glad it helped xx

 

[Abblebubba]

JoJo, my name is Abbey-Leighh
I didnt really want him having any pictures ever of my baby! i just never want him to have anything to show any of his family or friends because Tyler-jay is MY baby, ive been here for him every minute! so no not selfish at all.
Emzi how are you today? things looking up by the sounds of it hun.
Anna! your bump is beautiful hun.
Im sorry if any of you think ive just jumped into this thread its just, i dont feel like any one really likes me or i 'fit in' anywhere on this forum.

 

[EmziixBo0o]

ive felt happier today!
waiting to go bowling now
then im babysittin my sister tomorrow.. but going town in the day.. then saturday my friends going to come over wer spend the day pampering ourselfs lmao ready for the night.. so tryin to keep buzy!
was at my friends earlier. ive thought about him and looked at his facebook page, but im thinking to myself just give him space just get over him ur better off without! cus i am.. im 2 young for his shit and its stressing me out completly!

 

[annawrigley]

Anna! your bump is beautiful hun.
Im sorry if any of you think ive just jumped into this thread its just, i dont feel like any one really likes me or i 'fit in' anywhere on this forum.

thank you babe
of course you do! post as much as you like you silly thing xxx

 

[Abblebubba]

Thank you, i know it sounds silly, but i just feel on the outside of every thread and group on here hmpf!
Think im having an off day, you girls are very welcoming thank you!

 

[~RedLily~]

Thank you, i know it sounds silly, but i just feel on the outside of every thread and group on here hmpf!
Think im having an off day, you girls are very welcoming thank you!

i know what you mean it can be really difficult getting involved in conversations especially when everyones already friends but everyones really nice about getting involved.

 

[Mummy.To.Be]

Awwwh you girlies are daft!
The thread wouldnt seem right without your posts!

** Hugs all round! **

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Get a move on little lady!!

xXx

 

[Mummy.To.Be]

ive felt happier today!
waiting to go bowling now
then im babysittin my sister tomorrow.. but going town in the day.. then saturday my friends going to come over wer spend the day pampering ourselfs lmao ready for the night.. so tryin to keep buzy!
was at my friends earlier. ive thought about him and looked at his facebook page, but im thinking to myself just give him space just get over him ur better off without! cus i am.. im 2 young for his shit and its stressing me out completly!

Good for you babe!!
Glad your feeling better.

xXx

 

[savingme]

This is 'Angielove' had to get a new account.
Back tho

 

[05wilkesm]

Angie are you a STM too? Im not like chatting you up or anything like that im just wondering
Nice to have you back btw

 

[EmziixBo0o]

Where is summer-brooke sophie !!

 

[QuintinsMommy]

Where is summer-brooke sophie !!

lol thats what we all want to know!

 

[trashit]

This is 'Angielove' had to get a new account.
Back tho

she's down as "inactive" im guessing the scarrry mods blocked her account and now she's tried making a new one thats blocked too...
i wonder what she did

moved back to mine today guys
it feels fabulous! Ive had a BATH! the best thing in the world!!!!! (my nanna only has a shower and its freeeezing!!) im not paranoid about the dog, about making noises i shouldnt, its freaking greeeaat!! And i can clean as much as i want cos i have this serious thing going on that i feel everything is germy and disgusting and needs scrubbing

hows everyone doing?
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